Alternatives to cliché in heterosexual porn
Ironic twist:
Ever notice how most women in mainstream porn don't get particularly excited. Making it over to orgasm is even less common. But for some reason every guy in porn is expected to have at least one. And despite all that (or because of it?) hardly anyone give a rat's butt about the guy. It's a weird dynamic, particularly since, behind the scenes, porn actors and producers have to go to elaborate lengths to produce and maintain their actor's erections.
What's with that anyway?
Most porn fucking is about the guy pretending to be satisfying the woman. She grimaces and rolls her eyes and pretends she's wildly out of control on the end of this guy's mighty scepter or tongue or whatever. When what she's really doing is basically sit-down or bend-over aerobics till the director says 'cut' or the guy loses his woody.
Why not turn the tables on all that? Amateur guys are likely to struggle with ejaculation control anyway. So what? Is maintaining an erection really a problem? Is getting it back up either so hard or so boring that photographing it wouldn't be just as interesting? (By total coincidence, last night a neighbor disclosed that sex has become more interesting for her since her partner's become mildly impotent.) Remember, real sex isn't about fucking like a windup toy.
Instead of trying to get them through bumpity-bumpity-bumpity intercourse why not get them to play around instead? Make it a game to see how long the the woman or women with him can keep him going, and how close to the edge they can get him before he loses it. Make it ok for him to stop when he gets close. After a while he'll get into the swing of it and maybe go for a while.
But most porn sites skip all that. Oh yeah, I remember why. It's called foreplay and porn sites don't get it. They don't even get it for women so why would they get it for men?
Challenges (but not show stoppers):
1) How do you want to deal with the 'money shot' thing anyway? (In real life what guy wants to stop at the best part, pull out of somewhere warm and friendly, to do something he's been able to do any time he's been alone in your bedroom since you were 14?)
2) Unless he's really young, if he does come early he's going to need some recovery time. Everyone's one the clock. What does everyone do, at least till he stops wincing when someone touches his glans? I suppose the next game could be how quickly can you get him back up, but the shoots are going to be a lot less predictable and take a lot longer.
Other Miscellaneous Suggestions:
- You could do Man/Woman/Woman three-ways where everybody gets to try something out until his girlfriend reaches her limit with what he's doing she gets the last turn with him.
- How about trying a riff where instead of getting your semi-straight models to try woman/woman scenes you ask semi-gay and -lesbian models to try playing it straight together? (Shocking suggestion I'm sure but no weirder than the common practice of hiring straight women for pretend lesbian scenes.)
