How to email me, if you've ever wanted to

thanks for your note re "30 seconds" and your advice.

I think he likes me too much.
WAY too much.

Actually we've discovered that just letting him get off immediately, he often can come "back" in like 1 or two minutes. And then he's fairly "useful" as far as that goes.

but my attitude towards the whole sex thing with him has just soured over the years. he doesn't in the least turn me on.

best I can do is either put up, or get horny elsewhere, and use him as the closest available male to "rape" (doesn't count if he's willing...)while my mind is elsewhere

this way HE thinks we have an incredible fantastic sex life, and he leaves off for awhile.

PS love guitar stuff by the way.

[Eek, that sounds tough. For both of you! --fl]

just lookfor work me n my girl

Hi -

Just wanted to say thanks for the link...as I promised Lena as soon as I get a link section going I'll be sure to add you...

Rey

[Hey, Rey, I'm glad you know Lena. Thanks for dropping by. --fl]

Thanks I got a lot of information from you.
Keep peace....love you

titin
indonesia

[You're welcome, Titin. --fl]

Hey :)

How do i view your flicker photos?

xx Kate.

[Hi Kate, check your mail for an invitation from Flickr. --fl]

Hi- just found your site by looking at my new "sitemeter" (I am really not computer or techno savvy) and finding some clicks from your site. I looked and looked and couldn't figure out why. Then I finally found my blog was listed in the "quiet" links. I have found new energy in blogland and am not so quiet now so wanted to invite you to visit again as I like what I see in you here.

Thanks for all you do to contribute.

[Thank you, Gillette. I'm glad you're back. --fl]

Okay....not sure if its because Ive been up all nite tweeking & updating my blog....(adding you to my erotic section ;) or if Im just too tired to try and figure out your e-addy...(hey...no one said being educated cant have brainfarts too !)... I would love to peruse your flickerphotos.

Wonderful collection of prose here ......

[No problem, Dr. M. You'll see more next time you log into Flickr. Thanks! --fl]

Hello! My name is John. You have a very nice and interesting blog http://www.realadultsex.com/!

I've started recently the new blog http://www.darsy.net and now I'm seeking for partners and friends for link and visitors exchange. If you are interested, please let me know and I will place a link to your blog at my main page! Looking forward to hearing from you!

Best regards,
John

[I ordinarily disregard cross-link offers from semi-commercial sites, but the comments on items for sale on this site are interesting enough that I'll keep the comment. Good luck then, John. --fl]

Hi! You have a very interesting resource. And I'd like to offer you to exchange links with my blog, which is dedicated to BDSM life style: www.bondage-guide.net.
Please review it and if you like this idea than let me know.
Regars, Alex.

[Thanks, Alex. --fl]

Yo...NOT spam....so youre anonymous...but do you write back?

[Hi CC. I get a lot of email, even non-spam email. I'm often a month or more behind. Sorry if I haven't replied to you. Thanks. --fl]

goood have fune

[Thanks, JK. --fl]

Hi. Very interesting blog. Do you write at all about sex parties or group sex? Paul

[Hi Paul. I don't write much about them mostly because I haven't done very much. One real three-way. A couple of sex parties including a big (weekly) BDSM party down in Seattle at The Wet Spot where I saw a lot of interesting stuff but just went to meet and talk with some fellow bloggers. Other than that I don't have much to say. (Believe me, if I ever do I'll mention it here.) Thanks. --fl]

you will be awesome if you put more pictures of your dick on there!

[Well, it's always there somewhere, Joshua. Usually under my clothes. :-) Dig around in my archives. There are some in there somewhere. Thanks. --fl]

Just stumbled across you recently, and I wanted to say how much I enjoy your writing. Good writing by a guy who some very interesting things to say. You're like finding water in the desert of blog. Thank you for all your work.

And I really enjoy looking at your very attractive body. I am a man in case your wondering. I'll write more after I've read more of your writing (so far I've only read your story about finding a healthy relationship after suffering a series of disastrous ones, by getting off the metaphorical railroad track and heading overland...), but i will say I really like what I've read so far. Thanks again. Chris

[Thanks, Chris. --fl]

I think women lie about how many men they have been with. We are to believe the old adage of "why buy the cow when the milk is free", and the only women who are not really looking for a mate when they try out the wares, are those who are independently wealthy, or have no reason to depend on a man. Now if more than 40 percent of women, can make a living, a good living on their own, then why lie? Consequently, I think that women are definitely having sex without love, but they are having it in hopes of finding love, with benefits. I could very well be wrong, but having been a bit of whore, slut, and all that it connotates in the past, okay many times in the past, women are definitely trying out the wares, and are looking for a good man. No if's and's or butt's about it.