Cunnilingual equivalent of "deep throat?"
While I'm on the subject of cunnilingus...
Theory has it that for men "deep throat" fellatio is a profoundly erotic sensation. It's not just that it's elusive or exotic. It's also about feeling warmly caressed from the tip to the base of the penis.
Well, fair's fair. What about cunnilingus. Is there a special something your partner, or a former partner, has done that made you think "wow, that's the way to do it?"
I know everybody's different, so don't feel like you have to answer for everyone. What's it been for you?
By way of example I should mention that the most profound moment for me wasn't deep throat at all. It was lying in a darkened room, after my partner had slurped me right to the edge, and then she kept me there for... who knows how long, just sliding first her tongue and then her thumb around the ridge of my corona. And I thought (to the extent I was able to think at all) "wow, that's the way to do it!" So that's the question. What's been the cunnilingus equivalent for you?
The other night, I was having spasms of insecurity about when I finally get to eat another woman. I have all the parts, but I've never licked a pussy, and mine is different than another woman's will be, and besides, it's all backwards to me - when I'm staring a pussy in the face, as it were, it will be reversed from how I usually deal with my own. I expressed these self-doubts to Spadix, and he gave me some tips, saying "I can't believe I'm giving my wife hints about going down on a woman." But one thing he said was that when you get distracted, you should switch things up. Lick a different way. Use more fingers. Try something different. And it occurred to me that I am the opposite: I would prefer slow and steady licking without so much variety once I'm moving closer to the edge. Stay with it, don't move, don't change anything. Variety is not the key for me, if making me come is the goal. (For foreplay, on the other hand, variety is just the thing.)
[Unless you were strictly oriented against it I expect you'd enjoy it, Orchid. Thanks. --fl]
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Ok, I will tell all of you men what a woman really wants or at least me. Not many men have the expertise required so I hope to enlighten here. First when I am in the throes of sexual excitement and a man starts moving lower when he spreads the lips open wide to reveal the clit is when I know he knows what he is doing. Next is licking constantly in the center and eventually sucking right on it will do the trick. Verbally saying things like "I am going t give you a good tongue lashing" heightens the experience. This works for me !
[Thanks, SK. --fl]