Wet towels, damp sheets and beds of roses
Camogirl of The cirl in camouflage talks about ejaculating during orgasm.
...Mom is sort of a bit of a lax housekeeper, which is fine, generally. ...we didn't launder our bedclothes all that often. Once a month, maybe.
But lately, I've had to do it a lot more. And, as hard as this is for me to talk about, I'll even tell you why (this also relates to why I have a nearly impossible time coming with someone else).
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If you haven't figured this out, I'm about to tell you. Most of the time when I come, I actually come. And when girls do it, it's not like when guys do it. There is ... um, more. So I generally keep a towel handy, but when you forget, it sucks. Time to strip the fucking bed. Again.
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So anyway, there's my secret for the fucking year. I am a little nervous about posting it, but at the same time, awareness is a good thing and why should I be embarrassed about something for which every woman has, at least, the capacity? I'm sure there are girls like me who get way too tense about coming (and then, of course, can't) in front of others because of this -- Lord knows I still have a hard time. And if we hang out and you read this anyway and now you're all weirded out? Your own damn fault, dude. You can't say I didn't warn you.
It seems like almost anything I could possibly say (or ever have said) about the actual event (from "Cool, I'll wash your sheets anytime" to "Eww, I'd have to wash my sheets") would be more trite than anything else. Instead I'll make to meta observations.
First, when nobody talks about it everyone thinks they're the only ones. The partners I knew who came that way were wicked freaked out about it and, like Camogirl, found it almost impossible to let themselves come with a partner. And I just realized there might have been other partners who simply made excuses rather than reveal they came that way. And the first time I encountered it I'd never heard of it either... but the next time I obviously had and could say so.
Second, I think it's almost impossible to underestimate the impact Ladas, Whipple & Perry's original book, The G-Spot, has had on people's lives. If people are shy now think how they felt before their experiences were acknowledged by the authors. (Of course since then it's become something of a porn clich&eacu; for some and an unachievable -- and perhaps mythical -- endeavor for others. Which, perversely, can itself be a source of shyness.)
Glad Camogirl brought it up.
...I think it's almost impossible to underestimate the impact Ladas, Whipple & Perry's original book, The G-Spot, has had on people's lives. If people are shy now think how they felt before their experiences were acknowledged by the authors.
Oh so true. As uninhibited as we think we are in comparison to our parents or their parents, we still have a long way to go if we are reluctant to accept our bodies and our fluids. Which is a subject for a separate post. In the meantime, thanks to you for highlighting this post and to Camo Girl for writing it.
IMHO -- Moist is good. Wet is better.
[Thank you, Kochanie. Glad to get confirmation from someone else who remembers the days before "g-spot" was a noun, a verb, an adjective, *and* an adverb. :-) --fl]