An Immodest Proposal
[Note: I'm on vacation in what may be very limited internet service so this is a pre-recorded and (I very much hope!) a self-publishing post. I may not have much opportunity to reply to comments but you're comments are still very welcome. I'll reply as soon as I can. You're some of the best commenters in the blogsphere so you're always welcome to respond spiritedly but respectfully to each other's comments while I'm away. --fl]
Funny how often "not feeling safe" is mistaken for "modesty." Hmm. Gee.
personally, i frequently confuse "respecting what i assume to be other people's boundaries" for "modesty." but that'll happen when you go from living in the Happy Naked Time House to Living With Roommate Who Has Serious Issues...