Readable Link: Freaksexual
Just so you know, Pepomint of Freaksexual may not blog often but he blogs exceedingly well. Recent posts include an excellent examination from bisexual-man's perspective of why bisexual men aren't really marginalized more than bisexual women, as is commonly believed. The trick being understanding just how marginalized bisexual women really are when they don't (being actually bisexual and all) conform to straight male fantasies.
Another? Twelve great first-timer sex-party pointers (again with an emphasis on straight single men that doesn't much distract from general applicability.)
Another? Your kink does not get a free pass makes the case for digging into rather than sliding past the implications of our practices. (Including, obviously, being straight-up vanilla but also everything else between that and the might-surprise-Dr.-Kinsey kinks Pepomint occasionally enjoys.)
Those being just three consecutive posts. Pepomint, like his frequent collaborator and very-occasional partner Andrea Zanin of Sex Geek, are just great general resources for understanding practice and ethics at the intersections of kink, polyamory, and gender mashups.
Hello! Thanks for the links and the good words! I know I don't comment much but I've been avidly following you blog for ages. I like the nitty-gritty details of sex-positive feminism that you get into.
I found the "How NOT TO PLAY at a *play party*" post HILARIOUS.
Negotiorum gestio, indeed.
Howdy! Thanks for the shout-outs, now and in the past! Much appreciated. And while I'm unfortunately not as regular a blog reader as I should be (don't tell Peps how far behind I am on his brilliant writing, for starters), I do very much enjoy your work too. :)