"Classy" -- A Slightly Different Form of Self-Negating

Fri, 2011-01-07 11:12

I'm not sure why this short, finished post spent several years in the very bottom of my draft pile.  The club is still there.

Tyler Cowen of Marginal Revolution raises relays a point I've grumbled about for years. A blogger I'm unfamiliar with, John Kottke said

In my experience, use of the word "classy" means the opposite of what the speaker intends.

Cowen's quote comes from here.

There's an ancient strip club on the route from home to my children's elementary school. They've recently changed their exterior design (mostly by taking down a lot of the signage and painting it brown) but for decades their motto was "Top-Class Show Girls." Their ads in the back of local alt-weeklies said the same thing.

And it just... seemed...

Ok, I want to stop here for a moment and say my take differs slightly from Kottke's. It's not that the person, place, or thing referred to is the opposite of classy. Instead it's an indication that the person doing the referring is the opposite of classy.

Update Can you think of any other words that work the same way?

The only example I can think of at the moment is that men who call women "ladies" are rarely gentlemen.

I use "classy" and its

Submitted by ozymandias (not verified) on Fri, 2011-01-07 12:41.

I use "classy" and its opposite "tacky," but I hope I'm not an unclassy person!

 

I make a distinction between "moral" and "classy". To me, "moral" means "I personally have a rational argument that X behavior to be the right thing to do, but I won't judge you if you do otherwise." However, "classy" means "I have no rational argument about this, but if you don't do X behavior, I will judge the shit out of you."

 

Things I classify as classy: being nice to, not causing extra trouble for* and giving high tips to service people; not showing off your wealth, if you're rich, by buying flashy things you have no use for; not spreading mean-spirited rumors; keeping promises; being loyal to your family, whether birth or found.

 

*My mom tidied the house for the maid.

Oh, and correct grammar.

Submitted by ozymandias (not verified) on Fri, 2011-01-07 12:42.

Oh, and correct grammar. Correct grammar is very classy. Multiple exclamation points are tacky as fuck.

Being British, I would submit

Submitted by FD (not verified) on Fri, 2011-01-07 13:51.

Being British, I would submit that if you have to advertise that you have it... you don't.

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