The Egregious "Porn for Women" Meme: I think It Depends on How He's Folding the Laundry or Making the Bed

Jill Filipovic says

In the aftermath of the Anthony Weiner weiner-scandal, the Washington Post asks women what kind of sexts (as they kids say) they’d appreciate receiving. Women ™ say:

“I would like a photo of a made bed,” says Kathryn Roberts, who works at a law firm in Washington. “I would take rose petals, but I want them on top of a made bed.” And not that fake kind of made, either, where the comforter is smooth but the sheets are a jumbled mess.

“Or laundry,” adds her friend Andrea Neurohr.

“Folded laundry,” elaborates Roberts. “Maybe in a wicker basket.”

Get it? Cleaning is so important to women it’s basically pornography! Haha oh women, with their clean laundry and their distaste for sexual pleasure and the male body.

Source: Feministe

Back when I was posting a lot of nude and/or erotic self-photography I went ahead and tested the hypothesis that women would rather see men folding laundry or making beds.  The results were positive but most of my non-domestic photo series were considerably more popular.

At any rate, based on my past experience I think whether photos of men folding laundry or making beds can be sexy has a lot more to do with the men and a lot less to do with the laundry.*

See the "Half-Nekkid Thursday" version of this post, with less safe-for-work examples,here.

* Note: if you're going to put rose petals on a bed there's a good chance you're going to have to use bleach to get the stains out.  Or else, I guess, use rose-colored sheets.


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A photo of a made up bed

Submitted by Lynn Gazis-Sax (not verified) on Sat, 2011-06-04 09:13.

A photo of a made up bed sounds pretty dull, with rose petals or without. On the other hand, a photo of the luscious meal a guy made (if he loves cooking) or the roses in his garden (if he loves gardening) would be, if not a direct turn on, a better "getting to know you" exchange than a photo of his dick. Then once we're flirting (OK, we're not flirting, because I'm married and faithful), he could follow with photos that show his naked chest, and dick photos, if they come at all, would be something to send me after we've actually had sex.

If I'd going to actually be <em>turned on</em> by photos of housework, they'd better show hot bodies, and, really, once there are hot bodies, the housework is optional.

I don't get turned on by

Submitted by Jericka (not verified) on Sun, 2011-06-05 12:56.

I don't get turned on by photos of clean laundry or by dick photos. I do like a nice chest pic, but, I prefer pics with a face attached. Mostly I like the idea of having sex with a person, preferably one that I like.

At the moment, I'm not living with anyone. Therefore there's no guy leaving his socks and clothes strewn on the floor, or dirty dishes in the sink for me to clean up. My take on the clean laundry/made bed "turn on" thing has always been that the guys were taking the women for granted, and THAT was what was in the way. The dirty clothes or untidy house was the obstacle or symbol of the obstacle, and removing it and the resentment unleashed the pent up desire.

Now, I'm not living with a guy, but, if I have had one over, and he makes the bed in the morning while I am out of the room.....I do find that attractive!

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