Posted by figleaf on
Tue, 2011-06-07 23:00
Couple of quick reminders about shaving, especially about areas like necks that one doesn't shave every day.
- Don't go over the area five times, especially if you usually don't shave that area or if you shave it only rarely. Instead, especially if you're shaving an area for the first time in a while, don't go over any patch of skin more than twice in one day. (Sure, you'll look a little scruffy for 24 hours, but you'll look scruffy with razor bumps too... and for more than 24 hours.)
- Do use a good razor and a good lubricating shaving creme
- Do soak the area in lots of warm water before shaving -- a good time to do it is at the end of a shower or bath after you've soaped and scrubbed, shampooed and creme-rinsed, and are otherwise done.
- Do quickly rinse the area with cold or at least cool water afterwards to close the pores.
- Do pat the area dry rather than doing the whole "vigorous toweling" thing.
- If you're going to shave you'll usually find it easier and less irritating to keep shaving regularly than to do it every couple of weeks or months.
- Oh yeah, and while I completely acknowledge it's easier to say than to do, don't let peer pressure, media representations, or a partner's expectations pressure you into doing something you're not comfortable doing. Like shaving your neck. Or other body parts.
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On the subject of
Submitted by ozymandias (not verified) on Wed, 2011-06-08 10:11.On the subject of shaving:
Men, I do not care what you do in regards to body hair. Shave it, wax it, let it grow natural: this is the sound of Ozy liking you anyways. HOWEVER, if you shave it or wax it, please make sure you shave or wax regularly, because stubble hurts when you're kissing me or sucking on my neck or eating me out or (if you shave your pubes) fucking me.
Repeat after me: NO STUBBLE. STUBBLE BAD.
I happen to find neckbeards adorable, though.
"...if you shave it or wax
Submitted by figleaf on Wed, 2011-06-08 13:34."...if you shave it or wax it, please make sure you shave or wax regularly..." Oh! I should add that to my list! Because yes, *if* you're going to shave it's probably better to keep shaving. Assuming you do it right to begin with (i.e. don't scrape yourself raw the first day) it's almost always easier to keep going than to stop. And if you go maybe a week or two each time it's almost like starting over for your skin irritation-wise.
As for stubble, I'm with you -- stubble burn from someone else bugs me. But! A lot of women disagree with us. I'm sure a number of men do as well. Don't tell the DSM editors though or they'll make stubble-appreciation a disorder. If they don't make stubble-aversion one instead. :-) Thanks, O. --fl
Well, then, I hope those
Submitted by ozymandias (not verified) on Wed, 2011-06-08 13:36.Well, then, I hope those ladies and gentlemen understand that they are perverted, deranged and probably against the will of God. :)