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Richard Mourdock, Todd Akin, Etc. Are Only Rape Fantasists and Rape Apologists but Not Actual Rapists

On Facebook I ran across this nifty image from RancidButter and it set me to thinking...

Image by Facebook User RancidButter. Cached as a bandwidth-conserving courtesy
Image by Facebook User RancidButter.

What prompted me was the observation that, in addition to the actual victims Mourdock, Akin, and Co. would like to see sent to prison there's also the matter of what should become of, oh, say, the victim's parents, their sons or daughters, their girlfriends or boyfriends, or, of course, their husbands who help the victim free herself of the remainders of her assailant's tissue.

And that was the point it hit me.

Richard Mourdock probably isn't a rapist.

Sure, he might have fantasized about it from time to time.  As no doubt a lot of his sympathizers have.

But.

You know?

As any sex educator (or "bodice ripper" novelist) will tell you, sexual fantasy is soooooooo removed from reality.

And so Mourdock, like Paul Ryan (woo, especially Paul Ryan -- have you ever read Ayn Rand's "sex" scenes?!?!?) probably believe that rape is something that happens only to pretty, single, typically blonde or maybe exotically Asian or African American babes. Irresponsible ones.  Maybe "slutty" ones.  Definitely ones with no support. Who lives alone.  Who don't have family.  Definitely not ones that live with, let alone maybe support their family. Absolutely not someone who's married... one who already has children.  Who has a spouse who loves and cares for her.

And definitely not someone they know. 

And that's the whole problem!

They probably aren't rapists!

And so they can only imagine "what it would be like." 

And, I guess, they're imagining it wouldn't really be all that bad, you know?

And since they have no real... well... conception of what it's really like, or what a large cross section of the population the victims really fall into...

They just don't think it through.

Not the consequences of their other fantasies about "life."  Meaning, of course, "unborn" life but not, you know, actual adults with actual lives life.

Fantasies.

You know, sexual fantasies really aren't all that bad.  Even really bad ones.  Sex researchers and educators have pretty much demonstrated that as long as you're clear about the difference between fantasy and reality, and you're not acting them out even really, really bad erotic fantasies are... not a threat.

No, it's not so much the want-to-feel-good sexual fantasies that are the problem.

Instead the problem is regular old conservative want-to-feel-good-about-myself fantasies.

Especially ones you want to enact into, you know, actual law!

That?

That's a problem.

Fantasies belong between the ears, or maybe even in the bedroom.  But not in the law books, ok?


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Exodus 34:6-7 and the "Iniquity of the Fathers" - More Problems With Conservative Rape Apology Theology

So Richard (DIck) Mourdock has a big sad ("it has been one of the toughest days of my life") about the very suggestion that just because (he believes, after he "struggled with it myself for a long time") God intends a rapist to get his victim pregnant that he therefore intends for the rapist to actually, you know, rape his victim.

Because, you know, he and his ilk also claim even if the father is a sinner God says his child is completely innocent and just as precious as any other life.

Oh really?

Let's see what his part of the Bible say about God's attitudes towards the offspring of guilty people:

(Exodus 34:6-7) - "Then the Lord passed by in front of him and proclaimed, "The Lord, the Lord God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in loving kindness and truth; who keeps loving kindness for thousands, who forgives iniquity, transgression and sin; yet He will by no means leave the guilty unpunished, visiting the iniquity of fathers on the children and on the grandchildren to the third and fourth generations."

Uh oh!

Not that we really expect Mourdock, Aiken, Ryan, or other nominally Christian extremists to be authentic, let alone consistent, about their respect for the Bible -- after all their entire political agenda involves the repeal of the Sermon on the Mount!  But if we take them at their word then they're stuck with only a few very ugly choices:

If God meant what he said in Exodus 34:6-7 (and elsewhere around the Old Testament) then He doesn't think a rapist's baby is all that innocent or worthy of protection after all.  In which case Mourock et. al are seriously misinterpreting what God wants, Or.

If God meant what he said but a rapist's baby doesn't fall under the Exodus 34:6-7 clause then God sort of necessarily really doesnt think a rapist is guilty of iniquity.  In which case Mourdock et. al are seriously misinterpreting what God wants.

If God really didn't mean what he said in Exodus 34:6-7, or, worse from their claimed position, he meant it but it's not that big a deal to ignore Him, then they're throwing open the Biblical-interpretation cafeteria door, in which case they need to explain... well... why we have to listen to them pulling the God card on any number of other issues... where, after all, they're generally far more at odds with the black and white text than are, oh, say, most liberals and progressives.

Personally I think there are plenty of other positive, uplifting, and non-getting-into-other-people's-business versions of Christian theology that don't require literal interpetations of every line of text.  Which considering Jesus' absolute and unambiguous condemnations of hypocrisy and empty piety ought to comfort Mourdock, Akin, Ryan, and their ilk enormously. 

But!

If they're going to keep insisting we adopt their spiteful, narrow, supersticious and suspiciously self-serving interpretations then... one way or another Mourdock is wrong that God both doesn't intend for a rapist to commit his crime but does intend him to impregnate his victim.

Seriously, gang.  If you're going to be a Christian in the first place you've got to see the Bible as more than a magic rattle you can shake any time you want to feel good about being a self-serving dick.

Note: I've been using the words "rape" and "rapist" in these last few posts because that's the language Mourdock, Akin, Ryan, and the rest insist on using.


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Paul Ryan Also Believes Burglary Is a Method of Interior Design and That Ayn Rand...

...is the author of a method of political philosophy rather than the author of bodice ripping fiction.

For Rand worshipers consent is compromise. For Rand worshipers compromise is only for the weak.  For Rand worshipers the strong don't compromise they take.  Therefore in Rand's impoverished little moral universe "legitimate" rape, which 'wingers are always so careful to distinguish, is the only legitimate "method of conception."

And, of course, Paul Ryan is a Rand worshiper.


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It's Worse Than You think: For Tom Smith and His Ilk There's No Difference "To Her Father!"

Speaking about his own daughter's unplanned, unwanted pregnancy Tom Smith is generally considered to have equated the serious matter of criminal sexual assault with unwed pregnancy. Believe it or not, the American Taliban Republican Senate candidate is an even bigger capital-P Patriarchal knuckle dragger than that! Check out Christine Roberts' succinct summary of Smith's remarks. (Emphasis mine.)

"Now don't get me wrong. It wasn't rape."

When pressed by another reporter, the 66-year-old reiterated the comparison of his daughter’s out-of-wedlock pregnancy to becoming pregnant from rape.

"Put yourself in a father's position. Yes, it is similar," he said.

Source: Daily Kos

Never mind how the daughter might feel about an unwanted pregnancy with a lover vs. a criminal sexual assailant, to conservative Republicans (oh, and the Taliban) what's important is how her father feels about it! Contrary to the common interpretation he's not saying it's no difference to her! Just that it makes no difference to him!

As a father!

Either way in Tom Smith's old-fashioned Patriarchy all that matters is she's damaged goods and a burden on her family so what difference could it possibly make?

Basically these guys don't just want to repeal the Sermon on the Mount and the 14th - 24th Amendments to the U.S. Constitution, they want to repeal the whole fucking 20th and 21st Centuries and get back to the good old days of English Common Law, which defines rape -- both statutory and "forcible," as property crimes with the father, husband, or other custodial male as the victim rather than, well, the actual victim.

Sweet Mother of Pearl!


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Kaili Joy Gray on NARAL/ProChoiceAmerica's Utter Failure on the Mississippi "Personhood" Amendment.

Kaili Joy Gray asks yet another big WTF to what she calls Feminism™. The issue? What one would imagine to be the premier pro-choice/abortion-rights organization in America, NARAL/ProChoiceAmerica, waited till... the week before the election to comment on Mississippi Initiative 26, the so-called "Personhood Amendment" that would have outlawed not only abortion and stem-cell research but miscarriages and as many forms of non-barrier birth control as opponents could think of.

Seriously? Just a week before? Yeah, seriously, just a week before.

[T]hank god NARAL sweeps in, just days before the election, to educate us about something we apparently know nothing about. Excellent timing, isn't it? Because if we are really as ignorant as Nancy Keenan thinks we are, a few days is plenty of notice to launch an effective campaign to defeat the bill, isn't it?

Source: Daily Kos

What really seems to chap Gray's ass is the headline of NARAL president Nancy Keenan's press release at Huffington Post: "The War on Women You Haven't Heard of."

Seriously? Yes, seriously.

Just for the record, a) whereas Mississippi's "Personhood" amendment has been going wall to wall since roughly minutes after it was first introduced back in March of 2011, and b) whereas even the National Organization for Women, which can sometimes be, um, slow to respond was mentioning the the amendment last summer, and c) whereas even the NARAL branch Pro-Choice Ohio was all over the admendment, a fairly detailed search of the NARAL site suggests that, indeed, the organization that's nominally the premier pro-choice organization and certainly one of the biggest sources of pro-choice donations first mentioned Mississippi's "Personhood" amendment on November 1st! Seven days before the election.

Oops. Except Keenan mentioned it first in the Huffington Post. At NARAL/ProChoiceAmerica it was first mentioned... the day after the election!

Which kind of leaves me in the same camp as Kaily Joy Gray. To paraphrase Abraham Lincoln, if NARAL does not want to use its public platform and fundraising prowess to advance the cause of choice, I know some people who would like to borrow it for a time, provided they could see how it could be made to do something.

Because seven days before election night?!?!?! Sweet mother of pearl!

Lest you think NARAL/ProChoiceAmerica focuses only on choice at the national level, and prefers to leave minor issues like Initiative 26 to state an local chapters, Gray points out (correctly as far as I can tell) that the national organization has been equally mum on any of the several groups in Congress and the Senate who are currently circulating "Personhood" amendments to the Constitution.

Which leaves me wondering (as does Gray) whether NARAL intends to wait to start fundraising organizing till seven days before Congress tries to pass "personhood" Amendment, or perhaps till seven days before the 38th (and therefore last) state ratifies?

!#%*&%@!


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If I Believed in a Wrathful God I'd Be Wondering What Missouri, Kansas, Minnesota, etc. Really Had in Common

Dayton, OH, reporter Jamie Jarosik says

On Sunday, there was another devastating tornado outbreak. Parts of Oklahoma, Missouri, Iowa, Minnesota and Wisconsin had reported touchdowns:

Source: WDTN Channel 2

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Image via WDTN.com.

I gotta say I'm not a very big fan of the tendency right-wing religious conservatives have of casting every natural and manmade disaster as punishment from God for insufficient adhering to their particular political interests.

But!

If I were so inclined, or if I was inclined to ponder such disasters as indications of the wrath of God, then I'd be asking myself what the states of Missouri, and Iowa, and Alabama, and Minnesota, and Kansas, and and Tennessee, and Georgia, and Texas have been up to, since all have recently been hammered with tornados much larger and more destructive than usual. They might want to reconsider whether, under the circumstances, God really does approve of the spate of recent hate- and oppression-filled legislative campaigns against the poor, against the brown, against gays, lesbians, bisexuals and trans people, and of course against women.

I don't think God actually works that way*, but those people generally do. And if you did believe it, and if you added up the ways they've a) been doing a great deal of evil and b) getting walloped, then you might have a tough time justifying not repenting

* Although I do believe global warming works that way. And while the current spate of very bad weather is more a byproduct of La Nina (note, link from 1999 deliberately chosen) over the long run as the planet warms North American temperate-zone weather is going to tend to become more extreme. And but states in tornado alley haven't actually been any more egregious about climate denialism than, say, intermountain-west states which probably won't be adversely affected by the "wrath" global warming and might even come out slightly ahead.


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Indiana State Rep. and Rape/Incest Excemption Opponent Eric Turner: Protecting Uncle Daddy's Right to be a Grandpa Too

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Photo via TPM
Kaili Joy Gray of Daily Kos says

Thank god someone finally has the courage to stand up to the rape and incest cheats who, for too long, have been defrauding the system with their bogus allegations just to cash in on all the fabulous perks and benefits that come with being impregnated by a rapist.

Source: Daily Kos

You probably don't even need to guess, but follow the link if you're not sure. In a way it doesn't matter which state they try it in first, they'll try something worse in another state next week.

If there was ever any doubt that the current rash (and I do mean rash in numerous senses of the word) of various state's abortion restrictions is purely about fear and hatred of women and not even slightly about protecting the unborn, Matthew Yglesias reminds us

Meanwhile, from Andrea Nill I learn that at least five babies have died in Nebraska since they started denying prenatal care to undocumented mothers. Life, after all, begins at conception, ends at birth, and doesn’t count if you’re from Mexico.

Source: Center for American Progress

No wonder I've been feeling depressed lately.


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Anti-Choice Dakotans Think Letting 1 Man Die to Kill 99 Women Is Worth It Unless Komen Fund Kowtows to Anti-Science Doctrine

Oh this is just getting ridiculous! Beth Saunders says

Two North Dakota bishops have created a list of organizations that “good” Catholics should not support with money or volunteer work – mostly for abortion or contraception-related reasons.

...

Susan G Komen’s crime is that it “refuses to acknowledge the link between abortion and breast cancer.”

Source: RHRealityCheck.org

Since they think there's relationship between breast cancer and abortion they may imagine only women get breast cancer. And given the anti-abortion/anti-contraception movements visceral disdain towards women...

I wonder if it would make any difference if they realized about 1% of breast cancers occur in cis men?


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Remembering When Abortion and Contraception Were Illegal: Clarisse Thorn Hosts Two Short Films in Chicago's Hull House Tonight

Tonight in Chicago Clarisse Thorn will be hosting two short films about the days before Griswold v. Connecticut and Roe v. Wade established the rights, respectively, to contraception and abortion without prosecution.

Tuesday the 8th, my sex-positive film series in Chicago will be screening two films about feminist icons and feminist history. Here’s the event description:

Many laws, policies and social mores have tried to restrict women’s ability to take ownership of our bodies. To kick off the new ACTIVIST SEX and SEXUAL HISTORY themes of SEX+++, we’re going to show two documentaries about amazing feminists who fought for our right to make our own choices!

  • “Jane: An Abortion Service” is a fascinating political look at a little-known chapter in women’s history. It tells the story of “Jane," the Chicago-based women’s health group who performed nearly 12,000 safe illegal abortions between 1969 and 1973 with no formal medical training. As Jane members describe finding feminism and clients describe finding Jane, archival footage and recreations mingle to depict how the repression of the early sixties and social movements of the late sixties influenced this unique group.
  • “Margaret Sanger: A Public Nuisance” highlights this pioneer’s strategies of using media and popular culture to advance the cause of birth control. It tells the story of her arrest and trial, using actuality films, vaudeville, courtroom sketches and re-enactments, video effects and Sanger’s own words.

SEX+++
pro-SEX, pro-QUEER, pro-KINK
a free documentary film series for people who like sex

Second Tuesdays, 7pm
FREE, all are welcome
Jane Addams Hull-House Museum
800 S Halsted
RSVP: (312) 413-5353
Here’s Facebook, here’s the Google Group email list

Source: Feministe

I'll be there. I'm old enough to have been a high-school-age peer counselor in the days before Roe, and at least technically old enough to remember Griswold. But it was all pretty vague to me. So I'm looking forward to the refresher.


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