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Blogroll Amnesty Day, 2009

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Tue, 2009-02-03 18:55


Image from Skippy the Bush Kangaroo.

Cool blogs I think are worth a look at, that may not appear as often in blogrolls as this blog does.

There are lots, actually — if you look in the new, unsorted area of my blogroll you’ll find lots of greater and lesser sites, almost all of which I read and enjoy regularly.

1) Freethinker of notes of a freethinker is a good one. His intro says

Raised a Muslim in Lahore, I’m a freethinker against organized religion and social hierarchies, a radical feminist, a social anarchist, an antiestablishmentarian – revolutionary to the core. Apart from that, I’m a daytime student, a home-maker, and an avid reader and food lover though with limited resources.

Following links on his site, from his blogroll and especially from his commenters is pretty cool too.

2) Britni Danielle’s Oh My God, That Britni’s Shameless is pretty good too. A fun combination of insightful philosophizing, fashion commentary, product reviews, and self-photography, current events, as well as the ups and downs of life, love, sex, and relationships when you’re still living close to your parents.

3) JSS of Into Temptation is still a new blogger, at least on this site, but I thought he got off to a good start with the question

Where are the male hetero sex bloggers? Too busy whacking off to Internet porn to actually write about it?

4) Lisa Wade and Gwen Sharp’s Sociological Images is a great resource not only for ideas for posts but just… ideas, period, about the way we (intentionally or not) collectively present ourselves to each other. Oh, and it turns out they’ve also got a YouTube channel, Sociological Images: The Big Picture for videos.

Another nice male sex-blogger is 13 Messages. I only discovered his blog the other day but it’s nice to have company.

5) I like Dr. Kate of Gynotalk a lot too. Good, generally more social than medical answers to interesting questions? What’s not to like?

6) Hedonistic Pleasureseeker has a lot to say about life, love, sex, single-parenting, work, home remodeling, and hard-core views-of-an-insider apocalyptic financial analysis presented with wonderfully gonna-be-retro-someday fashion** sense.

[** 7) The question isn’t why do I call out two women bloggers for paying attention to fashion. The question is why don’t more men do so? The only male blogger I read who focuses primarily on male fashion do’s and don’ts is Magnificent Bastard. Monk of Twisted Monk occasionally pitches in as well. —fl]

Happy Blog Amnesty Day!

Sun, 2008-02-03 14:45

Photobucket Blogroll Amnesty Day Banner

All things considered the reason today has been designated Blogroll Amnesty Day isn’t as important as that there is such a day.

And if you’re not sure what it might be, here’s the idea, as articulated by non-sex blogger Mike of Mike the Mad Biologist

[T]he start of 2008 seems like a good time to have another Blogroll Amnesty Day. If you’re not on my blogroll, and I’m on yours, leave me a link below and I’ll add you (note: racists, creationists, and flat-out weirdos won’t be accepted).

Please put your blog name on one line, and the url on the second line, like so:
Mike the Mad Biologist
http://scienceblogs.com/mikethemadbiologist/

or give me a line of html code, like so:
Mike the Mad Biologist

Thanks!

Source: Probably pretty obvious at this point

Ok, technically, I first heard about it from Blue Gal who in turn got it from another non-sex blogger, Stephen Herron of Drinking Liberally in New Milford, who in turn got it from Mike. And me? I was reminded today was the day from a post by M.Yu of the distinctly power-exchange-oriented The Jade Gate.

So! Same deal: If I am on your Blogroll and you notice that you are not on mine, tell me! I will add you. Heck… Add me to yours and I will add you to mine. Just drop a note in comments here.

Couple of things: Unlike Blue Gal, Stephen Herron, and Mike the B who aren’t part of the pink ghetto, as Melissa Gira calls sex bloggers, linking to me can be a bit stigmatizing. I totally get that even though I actually blog mostly about sexuality as it pertains to politics and gender there are quite a few sites that can’t comfortably link to me without rumbling their advertisers and/or colleagues and/or employers and/or partners, children, neighbors, and friends.

That’s ok. My original scheme when I stumbled across this domain name and saw it was available and thought it was too good a name to pass up was to start a totally non-sex oriented media-and-the-first-amendment site and make hay out of how often what would have been entirely innocuous content got firewalled or NannyNetted based on the name alone. But I didn’t do that, choosing instead to tackle sex head on (for what I believe are obvious reasons).

So, all this is preamble to saying how much I appreciate those of you of every blogging “denomination” who do link, quote, and blogroll me. Thank you. I’ll be honored to return the favor.

Note: Speaking of returning the favor, I’ve just added M.Yu’s The Jade Gate since, it turns out, he has me in his blog roll. Who’s next?

There’s still plenty of time…

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