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Hymens, Hormones, and... Age

Wed, 2008-12-03 19:08

One more dismal thing about the whole virginity=bleeding+pain business.

According to a randomly-Googled Australian Government safe-sex site called of “I Stay Safe”

The thickness and elasticity of the hymen varies according to the level of oestrogen [spelled “estrogen” in American English —fl] (female hormones) in the body. Before puberty, the hymen does not have much stretch, so would usually be damaged if a large enough object passed through it. Once you go through puberty and start to develop oestrogen, the hymen becomes thickened and more elastic in nature. At this point it looks like a hair scrunchy. It will easily accommodate an object such as a tampon or penis and simply stretches out and back.

Read the quote in context here.

In other words the ancient tradition of expecting blood and, for that matter, innocence and inexperience on a woman’s wedding night probably has an uncomfortably large something to do with the also ancient (and still practiced in parts of the world today) tradition of marrying girls very young — at or soon after menarche, before normal adult estrogen levels are well established.

Eww.

"Functional Equivalents" of Human Trafficking Don't Count Either

Tue, 2008-06-17 20:46

Megan Carpentier of Jezebel brings to our attention yet another form of human purchasing and transportation that, according to certain Southern Baptist Convention admirers, doesn’t count as “trafficking” because it’s not cash-for-sex prostitution.

In an effort to combat the functional equivalent of human trafficking, Egypt has a law that prohibits men from marrying women more than 25 years their junior. While one might argue that a 25-year-old woman marrying a 50-year-old-man could pose some problems (but often doesn’t), it doesn’t seem to me that it ought to be outright illegal, but that’s not really the point of the law. The problem in Egypt is that some of their wealthier Gulf neighbors have a habit of coming to Egypt to marry extremely young women, as was the recent case in which a 17-year-old found herself married to a 92-year-old man, presumably for a hefty dowry of some sort.

The Ministry of Justice has refused to endorse the marriage, which will make it impossible for the man to leave the country with his bride. However, there is of course a loophole. If the husband deposits money into an account at the Egyptian National Bank in his wife’s name, the Ministry can approve the marriage. Last year, 173 men deposited an average of $80,000 USD and subjected themselves to some unspecific screening in order to marry their much-younger wives.

Read the rest of the story here.

Yup, they’re just one-time sales to “husbands” and by family members and not pimps, and (especially with husbands so much older) they’ll be doing more forced labor than forced sex. Still, it would be really nice if Congress somehow, I don’t know, kept the primary focus of a key anti-trafficking law focused on, well, anti-*trafficking.*

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