Just a quick follow up question on my post about grinding/frottage/kit-riffing/"dry-humping" from a week or so ago.

You'll recall I'm interested in promoting ways couples can have hot, full-body, generally orgasmic sex together without skin-to-skin/penetrative contact. I won't go all the details yet (besides the fact that I think grinding through clothes is incredibly hot) because I'm still in the early stages.

But I did have a question for people who might be familiar with lap dancing in strip clubs. I know that male customers often seek out lap dances because they can have orgasms when a dancer rubs herself against them. So that part I get.

What I have no idea about, though, is whether or how easily women can have orgasms by "lap dancing" a partner.

It's not necessarily the end of the world if the answer is no, it's not as nice for the dancer as the, um, dancee. Because at least in my experience the roles are reversed with the classic on-the-couch grinding where my partners have generally had no problem with orgasms but I find it almost impossible.

Anyway if you've got clues I've got cluelessness, so thanks in advance.