gender bias

Since Nobody Carries a Purse While Running, Suzanne Reisman Asks Why Women's Shorts Don't Have Real Pockets

Sat, 2011-04-30 21:56

I always feel a little uncomfortable complaining about the differences between men's and women's clothes. On the one hand, "fashion" or design esthetics not withstanding, the quality, cleanability, and practicalities tend to be much lower than comparable articles for men, and stich for stitch and seam for seam they prices tend to be higher. On the other hand it doesn't seem to be true that women lack agency in their purchasing decisions, nor probable that women's actual buying habits have no correlation with the products designers, manufacturers, and retailers make available.

But when I go shopping with my 11-year-old daughter, compared to what was available for my son three years ago when he was 11 (he's now 14), I... gotta chafe about it. A lot.

Case in point, both my kids have ipod-sized hand-me-down smart phones. These fit effortlessly into the front pockets of my son's jeans. The same size phone sticks out of my daughter's jeans pockets because for some incredibly baroque reason girl-jeans pockets are only about three inches deep.

Anyway, since I don't feel comfortable about carping about it stand-alone I'm really, really happy to endorse the following post by Suzanne Reisman , who says

Dear Women’s Athletic Apparel Manufacturers:

I appreciate that you understand that women should be active and earn your livings by producing clothing to enable us ladies to engage in physical fitness. However, what is wrong with you? Most of you seem to produce clothing for men and women, and of course, the men’s gear is a jillion times better.

First off, almost all shorts made for men have pockets. You seem to understand that men carry shit with them – like keys and ID and money and music machines and maybe even inhalers or tissues – when they run. Guess what? Women need those items too! Especially asthmatic ones! Those little “key pockets” are nice for a key, but otherwise they are fucking bullshit. I need to carry my inhaler with me, just in case. Where shall I put it in your pocketless shorts?

This brings us to the length of shorts. Men’s shorts come in a variety of lengths, from the short running kind to straight legs that extend to their knees. Women’s shorts, on the other hand, come in two sizes: short and even shorter.

Source: Cuss and Other Rants

I know, I know, the theory is that it's just a waste of time putting pockets in women's slacks because everyone knows All Ladies Carry Purses Anyway. Except, you know, when they run or do sports. So WTF is the deal with women's athletic shorts then?

Who Knew Rick Santorum Was Straight? Also, Context for Sarah Palin's "Knuckle-Dragger" Remarks

Fri, 2011-02-11 11:26

Via anthropologist, paleontologist, and Neanderthal expert John Hawks' regular "Neanderthal anti-defamation files" feature, media diva Sarah Palin said of aspiring teabagger Presidential candidate Rick (man-on-dog) Santorum

Why do they have to bring poor Neandertals into it?

...

"I will not call him the knuckle-dragging Neanderthal," Palin continued. "I'll let his wife call him that instead."

Oh, well, this is so easy a caveman could do it.

Source: john hawks weblog

First of all, it's always funny to be reminded that over-the-top doth-protest-too-much homophobic conservative Republicans are sometimes married to members of the opposite sex.  Complete and total bias on my part, I know.  But that really was my gut response: "Rick Santorum is married?" Not that there's anything wrong with that.  Nor even anything implausible about it.  I'm just more used to the Ted Haggard / Jim Baker / Larry Craig / Fred Phelps / Jim West / George Alan Rekers / Richard Curtis / Mark Foley / Brent Parker / Matthew Glavin / Bruce Barclay / Glenn Murphy / Eddie Long / Troy King / David Dreier / Roy Ashburn / Ed Schrock / Jeff Gannon / Terry Dolan model of Republican homophobia.

Second of all, though, Palin was (for once) lashing out at Santorum in a perfectly appropriate fashion.  Columnist Ruth Marcus puts the seemingly Neanderthalist non-sequeteur in context

Just in case his wife doesn't take Sarah Palin up on her offer, I'll say it: Rick Santorum is a knuckle-dragging Neanderthal.

The former Pennsylvania senator and wannabe president was bad-mouthing Palin the other day for being a no-show at CPAC, the annual conservative gathering and showcase for presidential hopefuls.

"I wouldn't have turned it down," Santorum said of Palin's decision not to attend, "but I don't live in Alaska, right, and I'm not the mother to all these kids, and I don't have other responsibilities like she has."

All these kids? Santorum has seven, which by my count makes him two kids busier than Palin.

Oh, wait, I guess not. He's father to all these kids, not mother.

And we know who stays home with the kids.

Source: The Washington Post

That guy really is a little shit stain. I'd just add that the incident really does illustrate what a genuine outlier Sarah Palin is to the Republican mainstream.  I genuinely don't understand what the fuck she's up to these days, but once upon a time she really was a force for change -- positive change no less! -- in the Alaska Republican establishment.

I'd just add that that impulse of hers, even more than her sex or gender or even complete decent into id and not just ideology, explains the animosity against Palin by deep establishment Republicans like Rick Santorum.  She's no stupider than they are.  She's no less hypocritical than they are.  She's no less avaricious.  Nor fiscally responsible. Nor prepared to create and execute national-level government legislation or policy than they either.  But unlike the Santorums, the McConnells, and the Bohners of the party establishment she has little tolerance for those qualities in others further up her party's food chain.  And as an almost literally self-made woman, whatever her own too-real faults in the domain of reproductive rights, she really doesn't have much tolerance for their knuckle-dragging attitudes towards women.

Shame she no longer seems interested in using her abilities to do good rather than to do well.

If Not Enough Women in Science is a Problem, Wired Magazine's Demographic Targeting is Not Part of the Solution

Fri, 2010-10-22 23:23

Responding to a recent Wired Magazine cover with full-page photo of an anonymous woman’s naked torso Sheril Kirshenbaum of Discover Blogs says

Recently I asked why science magazines seem to be marketed to men. On newsstands, they frequently appear alongside GQ, Esquire, Playboy, and other male-oriented content. Yes, men purchase science magazines more frequently than women, but I also think this is–at least in part–a chicken and egg problem: What’s traditionally marketed to male audiences gets purchased by them. A solution might be to change the target a bit, gear some more content to women, attract a wider audience, and–in doing so–maybe even encourage greater numbers of women to pursue the STEM areas over time.

Source: Sheril Kirshenbaum of Discover Blogs.

In comments Wired Magazine senior editor Adam Rogers said

Well, for sure you should read the story.

I certainly won’t deny that we chose a cover to be provocative. That’s in our job description. Got lucky in that a subject that famously sells magazines also, in this case, happens to be a brilliant science article.

But I also disagree with your premise, Sheril. I pay a lot of attention to so-called women’s magazines, and to my eye it seems like women’s cleavage (and legs, butts, abs, etc.) must sell awfully well to that market, too. And this is a story about, among other things, post-mastectomy reconstructive surgery, a subject that (if you were going to be reductionist about it) has more appeal for women then men. And that sense is right there in the display copy on the cover.

Here’s my take:

@Adam Rogers: Women’s magazines of course have their own cleavage factors. (Heck, without cleavage Cosmopolitan would be indistinguishable from Details!) But I don’t think that’s necessarily the point. What I think Sheril is suggesting is that if for some reason magazine vendors suddenly started stocking Wired over by Martha Stewart and Vogue you’d almost certainly get a significant shift in your reader demographics. And for entirely mechanical, non-mysterious reasons: more (but obviously not all) women drift towards traditionally women’s magazines, same tendency for men and men’s sections.

@Sheril Kirshenbaum: Context being everything I’m pretty sure that if Bust magazine, say, or even Oprah’s ran the same cover image Wired used to highlight the same article then two things would happen. First, it probably be accepted without commentary. Second, despite the visuals most men who saw it would assume, falsely, that it was a “chick thing” — albeit one “chosen to be provocative” — and not buy it. Of course it didn’t appear on the cover of a magazine associated with women’s sections but I think the point about context remains. That said…

Back to @Adam Rogers: Not to put too fine a point on it but based on the online version of the article (we’re talking about Sharon Begley’s piece about breasts and tissue regeneration, right?) if Wired wasn’t geared towards the lad mag demographic the lead and second paragraphs wouldn’t have used phrases like “encounter the damned things any time, anywhere” and “and there they are: conical and cantaloupy.” Yeah, if it was written for a women’s mag it would have it’s own cliche’s but you probably shouldn’t try the doe-eyed look about where your mag is stocked or who you’re pitching to. If you like your demographic that’s fine, it’s your magazine, your editorial decision, and your advertiser base as well. But even if you agree it would be good if there were more women in science (and I’m pretty sure you do agree) you’re not being part of the solution here.

Incidentally I agree that trite lad-mag lead paragraphs and glamor/fashion-magazine-style photos of women notwithstanding the article itself is a creditable report about some promising science.

Mary Daly's Essential Transphobia

Wed, 2010-01-06 15:39

Well that was pretty quick. Melissa McEwen at Shakesville posted the late Mary Daly’s popular “origin of the word sin” quote by way of eulogy an early feminist icon. And, despite multiple apologies, promptly got threadjacked by accusations of transphobia. Enough so that another blogger at the site closed comments on the post.

The bone of contention being Daly’s evident transphobia. Which isn’t terribly widely know — little-known enough, for instance, to have caught the generally hyper-inclusive McEwen off guard.

If I have the main 70’s era categories of feminism that would have been current in Daly’s ascendancy she was a gender essentialist and not a gender equalitarian. That essentialism was a pretty big deal and one that, I’m pretty sure, is pretty incompatible with sympathy for the transsexual and transgendered.

Yes, you might argue, perfectly reasonably as many trans people do, that the real “essence” of one’s sex is determined by identity and not chromosomes. But that’s not going to carry a lot of weight with anyone who believes that, say, by its very nature the Y chromosome is irretrievably degenerate or that the planet needs to be “decontaminated” of individuals with that defect.

With that understanding transphobia is 100% consistent with gender essentialism. Racism and genocide would be consistent with antagonism towards gender equalitarianism. To an essentialist like Daly a man using plastic surgery and testosterone suppressing drugs to “pass” as a woman would be as viscerally offensive as a person of color using plastic surgery and melanin-suppressing drugs to “pass” as white would be to David Duke

That said, regardless of her motivation for analyzing the gendered status quo one can still learn from her analysis of its structure and flaws. Enough so to say she was a significant figure in gender politics independent of her essentialism. You might not want to touch most of her proposed solutions with a 10-foot pole, but one can learn from her analysis. And draw one’s own, non-essentialist, non-exclusivist conclusions.

The Important But Irrelevant Objection: "But X does Y too!"

Sun, 2009-11-01 18:27

He’s speaking about something else, but Matthew Yglesias addresses in general terms the fallacy behind standard MRA “but women abuse men too” thread hijacks.

[I]t’s really not clear to me what allegations of the form “but he didn’t write about X!” would prove even if they were true. If credible accusations are leveled, an obligation exists to investigate them independently of whether or not accusations leveled against the other side are being investigated.

He said it here.

Women in fact do abuse men, and they do in fact do so in numbers higher than are generally written about. The issue, though, is that “but you didn’t talk about X” is too often used not to expand the conversation but to stop it. Which is actually sort of a shame. On the whole gendered abuses are different enough to warrant almost completely different initiatives to combat them — which makes either kind of “but what about the…” objections in one conversation are almost completely irrelevant in the context of another. But to the extent abuse is gendered a non-stopped conversation between the sexes could be pretty productive.

Gender, Halloween, and Cross-Cross-Dressing

Thu, 2007-11-01 11:27


Photo by Flickr user BostonBill. Used under a Creative Commons license.

Ok, so a woman I know dressed up as a male cross-dresser last for a Halloween party last night.

Now you’d think that all a woman would have to do to look like a cross-dressed man would be… to wear regular party clothes, right?

No. Because most public cross-dressing isn’t about being female, it’s about being feminine. It’s an image not of women as they are but… well… as they ought to be. My friend, being merely herself, wasn’t up to the task.

A blonde wig, enough eye makeup to make her lids sticky, enough red gloss to do likewise to her lips, conspicuously false breasts with conspicuous bra straps, nylons with garters showing, and a garishly out-of-season white mini-skirt/fuzzy-top combination seemed to help, however.

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Various people have made much of the recent “Halloween/Slut-o-ween” trend in women’s costumes. Chelsea Girl of Pretty Dumb Things, not surprisingly, puts it better than most in her post on the matter. Here’s her description of outfits she encountered

I’m not particularly interested in getting my panties in a moralizing wedge over the choice of a fully-fledged adult woman to dress as a naughty nurse, or even over an uninformed kid’s choosing to wear some garb that’s age inappropriate. As much as I’m disinclined to suggest that this Ho-rrific trend is the second sign of the apocalypse—we all know the first was Xanadu, the Broadway musical—I am, however, interested in looking at what it means that the go-to Halloween garb for adults seems to be some variation of streetwalker.

I briefly attended a Halloween party this past weekend. In attendance was a Sexy Cop, a mini-skirted Marie Antoinette, a Gold-Digger, a Naughty Nurse, a Hot Devil and a woman with a deerstalker cap dressed as Sherlock Ho. (There was also a Tinkerbelle, a Marilyn Monroe, and a denim cut-offs wearing Amy Winehouse, but while those costumes may have some kind of intrinsic erotic charge, none of them were designed with sheer T&A-showing titillation in mind, so I’m not counting them.)

Her thesis is particularly dear to my heart. Read her entire disquisition here.

While my gut reaction is to simply agree with Chelsea Girl and the lamentably long-dark Olympia Monet that this one-night-a-year attire, like the Disney-fied corporate “big girl pants” of Victoria’s Secrets, may only highlight everything indoctrinated heterosexuals aren’t supposed to be. As Monet put it:

Before you start hammering me about the fact that my job is promiscuity, let me be clear: I have nothing against women wanting to dress provocatively or act promiscuously; it’s the deception I object to. If a woman wants to let her stuff hang out one night a year, why dissimulate? Why not actually go to Halloween as a stripper? Or a nudist? Or a showgirl? All three of those professions would enable the costumee to wear little to nothing without seeming like such a fraud.

The problem as I see it is that women are still unable to come to terms with their own sexuality and the desire to express that sexuality, so instead of being up front about wanting to be seen as attractive or sexy, she must instead be a sexy cat, or a sexy nurse, or a sexy devil. She uses the uninhibited holiday of Halloween to give voice to her pent up sexual energy, get drunk, snog with some stranger at a party, all under the protection of Slut-Kitty, her alter-ego.

I cached her post here.

In the face of my cross-cross-dressing friend, though, I’d like to suggest what might be going on with the Sexy-Golf-Caddy and Sexy-Insurance-Assessor (if there weren’t such this year there surely will be next) is that even women are feeling pressure to go out in drag.

I’m not sure where the pressure’s coming from, whether it’s from we men, or increasingly out-of-reach beauty-myth aspirations, nervousness about increased sexualization-without-sexuality in the media, compensation for being taken so seriously there rest of the year, or even exorcizing demons of an economic-dependency past as financial and social circumstances begin to approach… and, sometimes locally, exceed… parity with men, or maybe taking advantage of a formalized opportunity to temporarily snap under the pressure from an increasingly pornified male cohort. Like I say, I don’t know. But as Monet put it, that the emphasis isn’t on being a stripper but a stripper cat, on being not a prostitute but a prostitute firefighter sniffs of the same impulse that drives so many cross-dressers to go out as Liza Minnelli in Cabaret instead of her mother in Wizard of Oz or to eschew Norma Jean Mortensen for her hyper-feminized alter ego.

Anyway… one night a year I think it’s ok to go out as a cross-cross-dresser. But I think it would be nice if more people, like my clever friend, were aware of what they were doing as opposed to the new-trending multitudes who, I’m afraid, may not be.

Neither monkey's uncle nor ape's aunt

Mon, 2007-08-13 23:18

A common error pop Evolutionary Psychologists (as opposed to working scientists in the field) is to draw close parallels between the social or sexual behavior of two closely related species when other species that are nearly as closely related demonstrate strongly different social or sexual behavior. Particularly for species where socially acquired variation may provide local survival benefits.

Take humans, for instance, and our genetically most similar species chimpanzees, and bonobos (a.k.a. “dwarf chimpanzees.”) If you weren’t a careful scientist or if, say, you weren’t aware of how extensive cultural patterns in your own species can be, then you might make observations of bonobos and chimps and decide that since we’re used to behavior X in humans, and we observe what looks a lot like that behavior in one of the others (call it behavior Xa) then we conclude we must have inherited that behavior from a common ancestor. Then if you, say, took a look at another behavior, Y, in the other species and you didn’t think you saw the same behavior in humans you might decide that if those behaviors were evolutionary they must have evolved after the two species split from their common ancestor.

And then you might look at something a little muddy, like the fact that male humans, chimps, and bonobos tend to be larger than similarly fed and cared for females. And if you looked at humans and chimps you’d notice that males are not only dominant in those species, but that those males often maintain their dominance through violence — not only against females but against each other. And you’d say yeah, duh, obviously, and then you’d knock knuckles together or high five and say hooyah men are bigger and more dominant and that’s just natures way — why fight it.

But then you might take a look at bonobos… bonobos who, inconveniently, are very closely related to both humans and chimps genetically speaking and therefore, if you were an evolutionary psychologist or sociobiologist (or just a social Darwinist) you’d be highly irked by the following observations (emphasis mine.)

Violence

The popular image of the bonobo as a “peaceful ape” has come under fire. Accounts exist of bonobos mutilating one another by biting off fingers and toes. Jeroen Stevens, a Belgian biologist, recounts one incident in which he witnessed a gang of five bonobos assaulting a single victim at Apenheul zoo, in Holland. “They were gnawing on his toes. I’d already seen bonobos with digits missing, but I’d thought they would have been bitten off like a dog would bite. But they really chew. There was flesh between their teeth.” Other instances of serious aggression were documented by de Waal, who warned in his book not to romanticize bonobos: “All animals are competitive by nature and cooperative only under specific circumstances” (p. 84). It is worth noting that the most striking observations of injurious aggression come from captive groups. Thus far, science has not recorded an instance of lethal aggression among bonobos (no infanticide, no killings across territorial borders), whereas many such instances have been documented in chimpanzees, both captive and wild. Also, the most severe aggression among bonobos concerns female attacks on males, thus further confirming the collective dominance of females over males.

Source: Wikipedia

and from an extended article in by Ian Parker in The New Yorker

A few years ago, he said, he was watching a young female bonobo sitting on a branch with its baby. A male, perhaps the father of the baby, jumped onto the branch, in apparent provocation. The female lunged at the male, which fell to the ground. Other females jumped down onto the male, in a scene of frenzied violence. “It went on for thirty minutes,” Hohmann said. “It was terribly scary. We didn’t know what was going to happen. Shrieking all the time. Just bonobos on the ground. After thirty minutes, they all went back up into the tree. It was hard to recognize them, their hair all on end and their faces changed. They were really different.” Hohmann said that he had looked closely at the scene of the attack, where the vegetation had been torn and flattened. “We saw fur, but no skin, and no blood. And he was gone.” During the following year, Hohmann and his colleagues tried to find the male, but it was not seen again. Although Hohmann has never published an account of the episode, for lack of anything but circumstantial evidence, his view is that the male bonobo suffered fatal injuries.

and

Stevens went on to recall a bonobo in the Stuttgart Zoo whose penis had been bitten off by a female.

Source of both quotes: New Yorker website

Hmmm… let’s see… males are bigger but solitary and the females are smaller but gather in groups… and appear capable of dominating larger males and that they’re capable of enforcing that dominance through violence?

Well if I was your average garden-variety evolutionary psychologist trying to boost my own morale by claiming the chimp-like behavior of motorcycle, inner-city gangsters, or Abu Ghraib prison guards as “natural” human behavior since chimps do it too and if I was unaware that quite a few hunter/gatherer groups, particularly in low-protein habitats live in groups where women band together for if not mutual defense then for mutual child-rearing and food production (providing up to 90% of the calories for themselves, their children, and the organized but satellite men at their periphery) then I’d take one look at that bonobo behavior, cover my ears, and say “la-la-la” real loud and claim I didn’t hear it.

Of course if I was writing an Ev-Psych-influenced sequel of Elaine Morgan’s The Descent of Woman I might give the bonobo story prominent placement and argue that, originally anyway, the common ancestor of humans, chimps, and bonobos might have evolved larger males not in order to dominate but for self-preservation.

Of course I’m not one of those people so I’ll just note that the choices of behaviors chosen to correlate, and the choices of which species designate common “role model” ancestors still probably has far more to do with our social biases than with the resolution of our instruments and methodologies. Not only am I not one of those people, I’m a writer. And as such I’ll point out that as creatures of metaphor and myth, evolution has equipped humans with the ability to draw both inspirational and cautionary tales from whichever species we choose. Neither our male-dominant nor our female-dominant cousins lifestyles sound very appealing.

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