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Jeana at My Sex Professor: "Being Ironically Sexist is Still Sexist"

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Jeana of My Sex Professor says

A lot of advertising is, no surprise, rather sexist and regressive when it comes to gender roles. But if the advertising demonstrates an awareness of sexist tropes, is it still sexist?

Source: My Sex Professor

Her answer, and mine, is yes. As she puts it in her title "Being Ironically Sexist Is Still Sexist"

And while we're at it, using "that's so gay" when you mean "that's so uncool" is homophobic, even if all the other kids are saying it. Even when you "know" you're cool with gay people and you're just being ironic about it.

Calling someone a "dick," a "bitch," or a "cunt" when you mean uncouth, aggressive, or ruthless is also sexist. Even when you mean it ironically.

It's not a matter of knowing what it means so it's ok to use it. It's that intentionally or not, imitating such tropes and stereotypes nevertheless flatters them.


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Still Very Bad News About Violent Intolerance Near My Neighborhood Even if it Turns Out Not to be Trans-Bashing

Note: Trigger warnings are in order for this post about a potential hate crime with an uncomfortable twist.

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Photo of graffiti at Ballard Skate Park by Flickr user Great Beyond. Used under a Creative Commons license.

Bad news from one of my local neighborhood's news blogs, My Ballard:

Just about two weeks ago, Tad and Cindy Anderson’s daughter, Tiva, was attacked with a baseball bat near the skate park at Ballard Commons Park. She suffered a serious head injury, but Tiva is expected to make a full physical recovery. However, her parents say she’s emotionally fragile since the attack.

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“She has learning disabilities that can make it hard to interact with her, and she is transgender (biologically male but considers herself female and sometimes dresses that way),” the parents write in an email to neighbors. “It probably should have been obvious to us a long time ago, but this turns out to be a dangerous combination. Transgender people are the most likely to be harassed and Tiva is particularly vulnerable due to her limited social skills.”

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The only thing the parents know is that the attacker is a white female, and they believe she may hang out around the skate park. “The female came up along side [of her] and told her, ‘I don’t want to see you around the skate bowl anymore,’” the police report states. “The female then struck [her] on the right side of the head with the baseball bat.”

Source: My Ballard Blog

The police aren't certain the attack was specifically because the victim is transgender, and in our neighborhood it's entirely possible it wasn't. In which case it would be, what? "Regular" bullying not of a trans kid but of a developmentally disabled girl? With a baseball bat? Either way not so great.


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Wingnuts: Once We Get Rid of Planned Parenthood We're Going to Take Out the Girl Scouts

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"Handmaids's Tale photo mashup by figleaf (hey, that's me!) Posted under a Creative Commons license.

Dear sweet mother of pearl! If you think the right's anti-abortion stance was about anything more than sticking it to women's independence, autonomy, and sense of self-worth beyoned whatever glory their husbands accumulate check out their latest objective. Via Barbara Morrill, who says "And if going after Planned Parenthood doesn't go far enough for you," Sophia Resnick says (emphasis mine, and I'm not linking to the anti-scout site*)

A new anti-abortion rights website has emerged, its aim focused on the Girl Scouts of the United States of America.

Speak Now: Girl Scouts is the product of two Texas-based teen sisters, Tess and Sydney Volanski, who claim to have recently quit the Girl Scouts after eight years because they discovered the organization has a “pro-abortion mindset.

Source: The American Independent

Bullshit. The closest the Girl Scouts come to a "pro-abortion mindset" is an emphasis they place on girls respecting themselves, taking responsibility for themselves and their health, thinking for themselves, and making conscious choices rather than acting on impulse. The only way that can be interpreted as a "pro-abortion mindset" is the emphasis on girls making their own choices. And choice starts with a "c" and that rhymes with "p" and that stands for "pro-abortion."

The Girl Scouts?!?!? Seriously?!?!? What the Sam Hill is wrong with these people?!?!

* Note: That's assuming this is a real site and not another hoax website.  But given that anti-choice 'wingers have previously gone after makers of the American Girl doll there's no reason (beyond simple incredulity) to believe the anti-scout initiative is anything but sincere.


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Senior New Zealand Police Minister Continues to Endorse, Encourage, Enable Prison Rape

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Photo of NZ Police Minister Judith Collins via stuff.co.nz

New Zealand blogger Maia says the recent earthquake seems to be giving the local justice department head an opportunity to further indulge in rape culture and, by extension, homophobia.

From the [New Zealand] Herald: Police Minister Judith Collins said the actions of looters was akin to “people who rob the dead”. She expected to see the judiciary throw the book at looters.

“I hope they go to jail for a long time – with a cellmate.”

Judith Collins introduced widespread double-bunking; she championed it in the media. When people who had actually done research suggested that it would lead to more prison rape and violence, she shrugged those statements off.

And now she’s telling us that, for her, abuse and violence between inmates is a feature of double-bunking, not a bug. She is not explicit, but we live in a culture where threats of rape in prison are common enough that she doesn’t need to finish the thought by telling us that the cellmate is large and called Bubba. By signalling that she thinks looters should be subject to rape and violence from their cell mates, she has acknowledged that her policy of introducing cellmates is responsible for increased rape and violence.

Source: Alas, a blog

This is pretty cool.  I'm glad she brought it up.

Few things identify rape culture quite like the assumption that it will be the new, the young, the white, the middle-class, the petty-criminals, or the white-collar criminals who will become the victims of prison rape when inmates are “doubled up” unsupervised in cells.

Similarly, few things identify rape culture quite like the assumption that if assertions like Collins’s are true then the prison system rewards, encourages, coddles, or even tacitly recruits those who really are prison rapists by providing them with more victims.

And finally, few things identify rape culture quite like the general failure of progressives to push back on the previous two assumptions.

While rates of rape and sexual assault seem to be in decline in the general population, prison rape remains a huge reservoir not only of future perpetrators but of current ones! And of current victims. Thanks so much for bringing this up and for making the connection so clearly.

Couple other little assumptions in there

  • That only prisoners sexually assault or rape prisoners
  • That only male prisoners sexually assault or rape fellow prisoners
  • That (dreadful as it sounds) rape and sexual assault is the worst thing that can happen to one in prison.
  • That sex between prisoners is inevitably non-consensual, or that loneliness and isolation can never be so great that otherwise straight prisoners never seek or form intimate or sexual bonds with each other.

But the main thing is that New Zealand's senior police official thinks that "tough on crime" means incorporating prison rape into corrections policy rather than opposing or working to minimize it.  She's not alone.


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Tip: the Best Way to Make A Million Investing in Greg Gutfield's "Ground Zero Gay Bar?" Start With Ten Million

Amanda Marcotte, again, about the ‘wingnut plan to build a “This is not a joke, I’ve spoken to a number of investors…“ plan to stick it to them Muslums and/or stick it to Liberals by building a “gay bar” next to the Cordoba House near Ground Zero.


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I just have one thing to say.  Just because their kids set them up on Twitter doesn’t mean they’re computer literate, or they may have done the first thing that occurred to me, which is to look and see if there are any gay bars within the vicinity of the Cordoba House.  And lookie here, there are!

If you look at this picture, and you’re not too stupid to breathe (sorry, wingnuts!), you should immediately see two things that make this whole “let’s put a gay bar by the Cordoba House and see liberal heads explode!” wishful thinking look even stupider than it is on its surface: 1) There are three gay bars within .1 mile of the Cordoba House and 2) They are all as close or closer to the Cordoba House than the WTC is.
She said it here.

Kevin Drum figured out the same thing from his home office somewhere in suburban southern California.

An even better poke in the eye for allegedly more fiscally-responsible conservatives, the first commenter on Drum’s post said

I think it’s called “Dakota North” or something like that.

Anyway, my recollection is, it’s not exactly the, um, most hetero place in TriBeCa anyways. Hope [Greg] Gutfeld’s got a marketing budget.

One of the first rules of starting a new business is assessing market conditions, including competition, at your proposed site. In other words even if they weren’t homophobic, religiously intolerant toolbags Gutfield and the “number of investors” who are lining up are crap businessmen from the word go.

Update Different context but see also Matt Yglesias on prominent conservatives’ blunt incomprehension of standard business practice.


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Jesus of Nazareth Too Feminine For the Mesquite Independent School District

W at Confessions of a Libertine says

In recent news reports I read about a four year old pre-kindergarten Texas boy who has been suspended from school for having long hair.  Say what?  Is this 1959 or 2009?

It’s a good post, read the rest of it here.

I mean, yeah, like “gender” and “masculinity” are just one big happy optional personal form of expression, right? No consequences at all to notions of “exclusion.”

I’ve been mentioning that one of the most irritating things about constructed gender is how absolutely capricious it is over time. For instance since every single Mesquite church I can turn up in Google is either Protestant, Catholic, or The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the principals, staff, parents, and school-board members of the Mesquite Independent School District worship Jesus of Nazareth. Yet according to both iconography and historical records neither he, nor his disciples, nor John the Baptist, nor Abraham (nor. depending on the photograph, Brigham Young) could attend school there.

This isn’t taking a poke at religion by the way, not at all, at all. It’s just by way of pointing out that although by all accounts each of the aforementioned gentlemen are considered epitomes of manliness and masculinity, the whimsies of fashion have changed enough that, at least in Mesquite, none of those men would now be considered manly.

That’s the problem!

Each were men. Fully functional in their day. Much admired in ours. Able to work, to teach, to lead, in many cases to father and raise children (in some cases by multiple partners.)

And yet?

And yet…

One marvels at the ostracism awaiting the 4-year-old when he’s old enough to grow a beard! Because while in some parts of the world a long, flowing beard is considered a sign of manliness (indeed under the Taliban men in Afghanistan who shaved were harshly punished) in other parts of the world proper grooming is instead considered manly. One suspects the Mesquite Independent School District falls into the latter camp such that…

...having a beard would not considered masculine.

Because masculinity (and femininity), though real as an expelled 4-year-old in social terms, is nevertheless pulled out of people’s asses.


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Conservapedia Bible Revisionists Can, Um, Go to Hell? A Look at My Original-Fundamentalist Great-Grandfather's Working Bible


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Completely unmooring itself from culture, tradition, and Christian religion, modern conservatism has now declared that all English-language Bibles are too liberal for their pinched little right-wing Pharisee hearts. Now they want to their own, more politically-correct-for-them translation.

One of their many qualms? They object that Luke 23:34 never appeared in the original Bible and was planted there nearly 2000 years ago. Which probably has some kind of internal logic for them — they imagine themselves believers in Jesus; they can’t imagine forgiving anybody themselves; therefore the words the dying Jesus said in the Gospels about forgiving those who trespassed against him has to be some kind of socialist typo.

Sadly, if the words were inserted this was done as early as the 2nd Century AD, and the sentiment, if not the words, were echoed by other early Christian martyrs including St. Stephen. It’s always seemed enough of a stretch to claim conspirators planted a birth certificate and newspaper birth announcements for Barack Obama in Hawaii in the 1950s. It’s completely out of control to imagine those same conspirators getting to Iranaeus, or the authors of the Diatessaron. But some ‘wingers seem willing to give it a go.

Not to put too fine a point on it but the King James Bible wasn’t too liberal for my great grandfather. He, after all, didn’t just contribute to but edited The Fundamentals or The Fundamentals: A Testimony To The Truth. Published between 1910 and 1915 the 99 essays in 12 volumes are widely considered the foundation of — and source of the name for — Christian fundamentalism.

(Above) Flyer pasted into the back of my great-grandfather’s working Bible indicating a series of sermons he was undertaking to publish under the title "Fundamental Truths." The publication later became the foundation of what came to be called Christian Fundamentalism.

For the record, and for ‘wingnuts so used to playing "gotcha" they’ve completely stopped thinking, "liberal in spirit" meant something very different in 1910, and while the flyer says he was from Booklyn he was only the minster in the largest church there. Wingnuts will be genuinely pleased to learn he was born in North Carolina, on his slave-owning parent’s pre-Civil War farm.

(Above) Page of my great-grandfather’s working Bible turned to St. Luke 23:34. On the opposite page are notes for a sermon he gave called "The Tragedy of the Cross." Contemporary conservatives dispute Luke 23:34 as too liberal (and also, I’m guessing, insufficiently anti-semetic) and so they’d like to strike this line from the Bible. Which is kind of ironic considering my great-grandfather doesn’t seem to have considered it the least bit problematic. Indeed, on the facing page it’s item #1 (“of prayer: ‘father forgive’”) in his notes on the sermon, a recitation of the classic seven sayings of Jesus on the cross.

The irony does not elude me that a sex blogger would be castigating conservative politicians for heresy, blasphemy, immorality, and rejecting the words out of Jesus’s mouth. And certainly I’d be a hypocrite if I waxed nostaligic for the sort of “the Bible says it, I believe it, and that settles it” theology that inspired the original fundamentalists. But this is too much.

It was bad enough a few years ago when at least locally some of the more conservative churches dropped all charitable outreach (what my grandparents called “good works”) because it conflicted with their political beliefs. That they now want to rewrite scripture itself to suit their ideology is perilous not only for their movements, and not only for their faith, but also for where they might be choosing to spend eternity.

Not to put too fine a point on it, if modern wingnuts have a problem with the Bible used by the original Fundamentalists they claim they’re only following maybe they need to think, hard, about exactly what their intentions really are. And where they’re leading.


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(Orson Scott) Card Check: Homophobia's Such an Unfair Term For Someone Who Hates Homosexuality

Late last month Amanda Marcotte of Pandagon wrote

G.D. wrote a post about how “Mad Men” deals with overt misogyny and not racism because the writers realize that you can sell a likeable misogynist more easily than you can sell a likeable racist.

She said it here.

Just the other day Yonmi of Feminist SF unearths another instance version of the general effect, this time for homophobia.

I have never been sure how Orson Scott Card justifies his homophobia to himself: I know he loathes being identified as a homophobe, because he would rather think of himself as a normal person with a normal distaste for and hatred of gay men who normally wants gay men to be kept in the closet, and chemically castrated or otherwise punished if they fail to keep themselves out of sight.

Read the quote in context here.

I’ve read very little of Card’s work. I put down “Ender’s Game” when I realized the situation (approvingly!) involved authorities having a very small child conduct a planet-slaughtering war by telling him he was just playing a video game. Whether the author suffered from cynicism, callousness, or naivete that kind of moral, ethical, and religious/spiritual lapse was a enough for me to turn my attention elsewhere. But if I’d read more of his work, Yonmi says, I’d have run into more of his homophobia including the proper degradation and death of otherwise patriotic, heroic, and war-effort-contributing characters who turn out to be gay.

Yonmi’s post includes a long pean to real-life British World War II cryptography hero, and computer-theory godfather, and mathematician Alan Turing who was outed for homosexuality, persecuted out of his job, and finally driven to suicide. Based on his body of fiction and non-fiction work, Card, nominally a science advocate and certainly a beneficiary of contemporary computer technology, believes the world would have been better a better place without Turing. (I’m sure a few surviving unreconstructed members of the Luftwaffe would agree.)

Anyway, yeah, racist is an awful word to use against affable people who just blanket hate people of other races. And misogynist is just such an awful label for likable guys who think the highest compliment you can pay a woman is to say “she’s going to make a wonderful mother for someone’s children someday.” And homophobe is an awful word to use against a guy who thinks it ought to be normal rather than disgraceful to hate gay people.

And I can see their point. Calling someone a racist, a misogynist, a homophobe, or other kind of bigot just makes it harder to see they’re affable, likable, NiceGuys™ who just think they should be given jobs they’d deny to others, who should enjoy rights they’d deprive others of, who should benefit from the misery they’d rain down on others. Oh, and who, like Card, think they should get paid to pen scenarios where adults imperil small children’s immortal souls to advance their strategic interests.

Update: And from the Couldn’t Make This Up department of irony, according to the Wikipedia entry for Ender’s Game, the implacable alien foes children are recruited to fight are called “buggers.” What. Ever.

Update #2: From reader comments it sounds like if I’d continued reading I’d have discovered that Ender regrets his participation in planetary genocide and that Card spends multiple award-winning volumes dwelling on Ender’s redemption. They evidently don’t redeem Card’s homophobia though.


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HedonisticPleasureSeeker on Muslims, Secret Muslims, Circumcision... and Funny Women

Hedonistic Pleasureseeker points out a secret flaw in Freeper plans to somehow humiliate verify President Obama’s citizenship by forcing him to show his penis in court. Or something. She says…

I confess: I’d like to see Barack Obama drop his pants for me too, but really. Their plan doesn’t even make any sense: Circumcision is addressed in the Islamic Hadith, which instructs muslims AND secret muslins to be circumcised.

She said it here.

Doh! Those wiley, Jehovah/Yaweh/Allah-worshiping People of the Book! How far back can this nefarious conspiracy to put an American citizen in the White Hose go?

Compounding her violation of Rule of Desire #1 in the preceding paragraph her introduction violates the Women Have No Sense of Humor rule with a knife-twisting play on words.

Since white racists are already obsessed with black men’s sexual equipment I’m sure they presume the President is circus-sized, but is he circumcised?


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