prostate cancer

Rejecting No-Shave November But Not the Cause it Was Originally Meant to Benefit: Prostate Cancer Research

Wed, 2011-11-02 17:11

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According to this much up-voted (1488 up, 496 down) Urban Dictionary entry for "No Shave November"

No Shave November

To not partake in the use of a razor for the entire month of November.

This month has the effect of categorizing men, most of whom will have a girlfriend who disapproves and will counter by offering "No Sex November" as well. The pussies will cave within the first week and shave. The candidates will go the whole month without shaving. But the real men among us will not only not shave but will have sex anyway, once again proving the theory that women are always wrong.

Source: Urban Dictionary

The cool thing about no-shave November is the original idea was necessarily intended to benefit men: a fund raiser pledge for prostate cancer research.  And that's really, really great.

I mean prostate cancer is still kills 30,000 men a year. It killed Frank Zappa. It killed Egyptian mummies. It's highly problematic in the detection phase and treatment-choice phases. There are appalling side effects for both male victims and their partners.

The bad thing is how weird people get about whether women (who in much of the world shave far more of their ancillary hair than do men) are held up to either scorn, as in the above (unofficial!) definition, or else held up as "ew, gross, legs only, no pits" or "women should do no-makeup November" or "LADIES, please DON'T" to...

eh, just a bunch more unnecessary crap for...

what, again, was intended to benefit a genuinely worthy cause.

So just because I'm taking a pass on the "holiday," and recommending that others do likewise, I just donated $100 to the Institute for Prostate Cancer Research Fund at the University of Washington instead. And I recommend that others, including you, do likewise. Thanks!

Deconstructing Reconstruction

Thu, 2008-06-19 20:18

Sungold of Kittywampus has an interesting post up about reconstructive surgery after breast cancer vs. prostate cancer. I’d like to excerpt the whole thing but I’ll pull out the relevant bits as best I can.

According to Nate Jenkins at the AP, the state of Nebraska has decided that there’s no need to help men who are struggling with erectile dysfunction. It already stopped Medicaid payments for Viagra and related drugs when the federal government did the same in 2006. Now it’s excluding penile implants from Medicaid coverage as well.

From patient accounts that I’ve read, the erection resulting from the implant feels natural and pleasurable to both partners. Most of the men who have an implant wonder why they didn’t get the surgery sooner.

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[A]part from the cringe factor, this is what they’re up against:

State Medicaid director Vivianne Chaumont said the change is consistent with a federal rule, approved in 2006, that barred the federal government from spending Medicaid dollars on erectile dysfunction drugs including Viagra. Nebraska followed suit a few months later and changed its rules to keep state Medicaid money from being spent on the drugs.

The federal government will still help pay for penile implants in states that choose to continue covering the procedure under their Medicaid plans.

Medicaid is meant to pay for the medical necessities of needy people and “sex is not medically necessary,” she said.

Do I even need to enumerate what’s wrong with this? ...

The ruling is also blatantly sexist. The state Medicaid program covers breast reconstruction, as most private insurers are required to do in accordance with federal law. Where’s the difference? Again, from the AP:

Chaumont, who moved to Nebraska about a year ago to take her current position, said she didn’t know why the decision was made to cover breast reconstruction under Nebraska Medicaid but added that it didn’t strike her as unreasonable.

“I don’t think breast cancer has anything to do with sexual dysfunction or sexual impotence,” she said.

I’m always uncomfortable when breast cancer and prostate cancer get pitted against each other. Both deserve adequate – no, generous – funding. It should never be a zero-sum game. And in this case, there’s no conceivable reason to cover one but not the other. Breast cancer has effective advocates. Prostate cancer remains largely in the shadows. That’s the only real difference.
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At bottom, Chaumont is enforcing the idea that sex is optional and probably downright icky or evil. That sex is not for people who are aging or ill (even if an increasing number of prostate cancer patients are in their 40s and 50s). That sex is not a part of mental health. She doesn’t give a shit that their partners suffer nearly as much from the loss of marital “delight.” But what gave her the right to impose her own anti-sex views on Nebraskans who’ve had the double bad luck to be both poor and seriously ill?

What’s next? Will the state of Nebraska refuse to subsidize walkers or canes on the theory that walking is not a medical necessity? You can stay alive without walking, chewing, seeing, or fucking. And you can survive for decades without using your higher brain functions, including logic and empathy, as Chaumont’s decision proves. It seems that even thinking is not a medical necessity.

Read the quote in context here.

I’ve been interested in medical side effects that inhibit libido or sexual function, especially in men, for quite a while. Our narratives of men as the “sex class” are so pronounced that, as Sungold says, men who suffer such calamities often vanish from sight. (By some accounts the Bible forbids them going to church!) There’s even a pretty strong tradition, thoroughly embedded in the “no-sex” class by the way, that Viagra and penile implants are of interest only to men and that their partners have no, zero, none investment in their partner’s sexual functionality. And as I’ve mentioned elsewhere several times recently the issues is further complicated by sexist/ageist bias: menopausal women who are still interested in sex have been standing objects of derisive humor for generations.

Anyway, great post by Sungold about a topic we really should be having a lot more conversations about.

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