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Maggie Gyllenhaal, Rupert Everett to Appear in a Comedy About the Invention of the Original Vibrators?

Debby Herbenick of My Sex Professor says

It looks like one of my favorite actresses, Maggie Gyllenhaal, is filming a movie titled Hysteria, about the invention of the electric vibrator to treat women for the medical-condition-of-the-time, hysteria. According to an article in the Guardian, the film will also star Hugh Dancy, Rupert Everett and Gemma Jones.

Source: My Sex Professors

Oh dear. While I think it’s a very good idea to discuss the original vibrators, and even better to dig into the incredibly alienated ideas that led to their development (clue: Rachel P. Maines names the first chapter of The Technology of Orgasm “The Job Nobody Wanted”) I’m not at all encouraged that it’s being developed as a comedy!

For at least 2,000 years (and possibly more) physicians didn’t believe women were sexual beings at all. Hungry for children, yes, and willing to do whatever it took to have them too as well. But they decided to call symptoms we’d pretty quickly recognize as ordinary sexual frustration into a malaise they called “hysteria.” Their prescription? Vigorous massage of the vulva to produce what they called “hysterical paroxysms“ and we’d call, um, orgasms.

Through at least the middle of the 19th Century up to two thirds of all physician’s income derived from these repeated treatments of otherwise perfectly healthy women! Doctors themselves generally considered the practice lucrative but dull and repetitive.

The first vibrators were invented to relieve doctors (coughsexworkerscough) of the tedium by automating it.

I mean, don’t get me wrong — the possibilities for humor are sky high! For instance one of the early medical vibrators was steam powered! That’s funny. And once electricity made its way into homes electric vibrators were introduced after electric fans, teakettles, and toasters but before vacuum cleaners and the electric iron! That’s droll. And as far as Monty Pythonesque possibilities go, the contrast of bored, pedantic Eric Idle or John Cleese types carping away while attending heavily breathing, enthusiastic patients is comedy gold.

But…

But…

The people who cooked up vibrators were dead serious!

And finally I’m pretty sure an awful lot of them were Americans as well rather than British. For instance one of the biggest manufacturers of medical vibrators in the 19th Century was a company called the Chattanooga Vibrator Instrument Company.

Anyway, while I look forward to the movie (looks like a good cast for starters) I hope it provokes a little discussion of the actual history of our very weird attitudes towards sex, particularly women’s sexuality, as well.


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Since Legalized Vices Become Less Profitable for Both Organized and Disorganized Criminals Let's Legalize Prostitution Too

Jonathan Chait of The Plank inadvertently puts his finger on why I think prostitution should be legal despite my lack of enthusiasm for prostitution itself.

La Cosa Nostra has always made a lot of money from illegal gambling. In the 1940s, elements of the mob moved into Las Vegas, obviously thinking, “This will be great — we can do what we’ve always done, but this time openly.” Bugsy Seigel tried to open a swanky hotel in Vegas but he did a ridiculously bad job of managing the project. His skill was killing people, but managing construction projects. It’s bizarre that these gangsters forgot that the whole reason they were involved in gambling in the first place is that it was illegal. Once you make it legal, then gangsters have very little added value in the business world.

Source: The Plank.

I think that’s about right. Whereas I happen to believe gambling itself remains pernicious, legalization has mitigated almost all the collateral damage that went with it. Same with post-prohibition alcohol.

Since even extremely high-quality cannabis costs about eleven dollars a pound to grow, and since surgical cocaine still costs seven dollars a gram (even after extortionate medical markups!), there’d be pretty much no money in illegal drugs if it weren’t, well, illegal. Given that drug-crime related deaths far, far outweigh drug-use deaths, and given that drug-related crime (from drive-by shootings to boosting car stereos) is astronomical compared to drug-use crimes, the profit margins on legalized drugs just wouldn’t ever be high enough to justify a) selling to schoolchildren, b) robbing stores to support habits, c) buying bullets, let alone guns, let alone using them to enlarge or defend drug-dealer’s “turf.” And I say that even though I think most drug users are… well… dopes.

Same with porn, I might add. Back when organized crime was responsible for almost all pornography a lot of the hoary stereotypes that continue today were often dead… and deadly… true. Today? I don’t think I’m going out on a limb when I say that while the total amount of available porn is orders of magnitude greater than it was before the 1980s when porn became legally generally acceptable the amount of coercion and exploitation in commercial porn has gone down. I am going to go out on a limb and say I think part of this is due to the much-despised but also much-complied-with Title 18 U.S.C. 2257 records-keeping requirement.

And so for the same reasons I think prostitution should be legal. Because there simply wouldn’t be much use in the system for… well… abuse such as pimping, trafficking, recruitment, let alone the almost routine rape, robbery, assault, serial murder, extortion by law enforcement, and trafficking that seems part and parcel with contemporary illegal prostitution, particularly subsistence/street prostitution. So even though I happen to believe prostitution as currently constructed both reflects and further distorts society’s baffling faith in the egregious Two Rules of Desire.

Update: See also economist Tyler Cowen on a British Journal of Criminology on the generally benign outcome of Portugal’s 2001 decision to decriminalize most illegal drugs. (Hint: consumption of more dangerous drugs declined slightly.)


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Unlike Some People, NYC Schoolteacher Melissa Petro No Longer Prostitutes Herself to Support Her Academic Career

Diva of Debauched Domestic Diva asks, sweetly, “Margaret Brooks, Melanie Shapiro, Donna Hughes, Gail Dines Where Are You?”

Last week while the majority of my time was being focused on the NYC Sex Blogger Calendar release a teacher in NYC was being removed from her classroom.

On Thursday morning while having coffee at my hotel I skimmed through a newspaper and a quote from Mayor Bloomberg caught my eye. It said:

“We’re just not going to have this woman in front of a class”

This women?

The women in question was Melissa Petro, an elementary school art and writing teacher in the Bronx who was outed last week as having a past as a stripper and a prostitute.

The key word in that statement is “Past”

Not current. Not an active sex worker. But a past sex worker.

A women who once made her living, supported herself and possibly paid for her education with sex work. Part of that sex work even being legal in New York state.

In reading the articles and catching some of the news about this online something stuck out to me. I saw other sex workers or former sex workers such as Audacia Ray defending Melissa’s right to teach but nowhere did I see Margaret Brooks, Melanie Shapiro, Donna Hughes, Gail Dines or any of the other people who speak out against sex work come to the defense of Melissa and I have to wonder why that is.

Isn’t this what they are fighting for? Isn’t the fact that Melissa left sex work and was now in a ‘respectable’ job exactly what the Citizens Against Trafficking organization was about?

She said it here.

Searching “Melissa-Petro Gail-Dines“ on Google turns up no statements by Gail Dines. Searching “Melissa-Petro Margaret-Brooks“ turns up no statements by Margaret Brooks. Same with variations on Melissa Petro and Donna (M.) Hughes. Same with “Melissa-Petro Melanie-Shapiro.”

I’d say don’t hold your breath though. The proximate cause of the unrest appears to be not so much that Petro was ever a stripper or prostitute but that she’s (never) denied it.

She didn’t deny it as a New School University student at the 2006 Sex Work Matters conference (session: What’s Money Got to Do With It?
Sex Work in Socioeconomic Context.) She didn’t deny it in the pages of the fall/winter issue of Post Road Magazine when she was still pursuing her MFA. And she didn’t deny it when criticizing CraigsList’s decision to shut down its “adult services” section last month in the Huffington Post. She didn’t deny it for however long it took her to earn tenure in the New York City school system. And presumably she won’t stop denying it now that her long history of not denying it has “suddenly” been discovered.

As far as Brooks, Hughes, Shapiro, and Dines are concerned the last thing on earth they’re going to do is defend a bright, articulate, employed woman with an advanced degree who’s experiences stubbornly didn’t reduce her to cat food and hankie twisting. Someone who instead seems to have treated it as a sort of ok way to get through grad school without racking up a mountain of debt.

All four authors, incidentally, have a pretty solid record of ignoring those they wish to pretend can’t exist in the first place.

Disgraceful, sure. But also entirely understandable for anyone who’s accurate assessment of the most reliable sources of foundation and grant money for their work makes prostituting one’s own academic and intellectual integrity in the service of those profoundly anti-feminist interests a savvy professional choice that’s… not that dissimilar to Petro’s.

They knowing, as they do, which side slips the check in their garters they’re no more likely to have a kind word to say about Melissa Petro than they’d ever have a nasty word about, say, right-wing “family values” foundation darling Senator David Vitter (not Hughes, not Shapiro, not Dines, not Brooks.)

The difference? Unlike some people Petro left prostitution.

Update Exception that rather proves the rule? Eliot Spitzer. He was a Democrat, an antagonist of Wall St., not a Bible beater, and didn’t direct millions of right-wing and neocon foundation funding into anti-“trafficking” activism. So unlike their benefactors has evidently been fair game. But good luck finding a ‘winger money-funneler in the news for hiring sex workers who’s drawn so much as a squeak of their wrath. It’s just not in their self-interest.


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Holly Pervocracy on Why Sex Work Might Cost More Than Other Forms of "Unskilled" Labor

Speaking of wage premia in sex work, Holly of The Pervocracy’s response to an uninvited solicitation provides another clue.

“I’m not someone you’d actually like, and I’m not interested in making this good for you, so would it help if I asked you to break the law for me?” is not all that that awesome a proposition.”

She said it here.

I’ve got more to say about her post but that sentence really stands on its own.


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Rachel Maines on the Origin of Vibrators, the Treatment of Hysteria Through the Ages, and Doctors as Sex Workers

Yes, I’m indulging in total juvenile humor here but I love it that the name of the doctor who shocked a gathering of 19th-Century French physicians by suggesting that their treatment of women patients for hysteria amounted to giving them orgasms is pronounced “ah juice.”

The video is a Big Think interview with Rachel Maines, who in the process of researching the origins of domestic electrical appliances accidentally stumbled into the study first of vibrators (introduced after electric fans, teakettles, and toasters but before vacuum cleaners and the electric iron) and then the 2,000 year history of the clinical treatment of “hysteria.”

Maines’ book (and her testimony of medical archives in the video) are one of the big foundations for my contention that inside the dominant paradigm men perceive women not as the “sex class” of classic feminist theory but as the “no-sex” class. (Because, seriously, 2,000 years of physicians making up to 60% of their income helping women have “hysterical paroxysms” by massaging their vulvas, all the while denying what they were doing had anything to do with sex at all!)

And as I’ve said elsewhere as clarified by Maines, the role of physicians throughout literally all but the last 80 years of Western Civilization also calls into question assumptions we make about sex-work as an inevitably status-lowering job.

In other words I think she’s pretty indispensable.

(Via Svutlana)


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Where Do So Many Otherwise Sensible People Get the Assumption That Prostitution is Unskilled Labor?

Note: this post got a little scrambled the first time so I’m bumping it back to the top again.

In her Dollars and Sex blog at Big Think Marina Ashade asked

"Why do sex trade workers make so much more money than other women doing jobs at the same skill level (i.e. no skill)?"


I think it's a bit of an assumption that prostitution requires no skill?  Consider the array of possible barriers to entry Adshade mentions in her post: evasion of law enforcement, avoidance of violence, avoidance of disease.  Those seem like skills.

Add to that the need for considerable marketing and customer management ability.  Those seem like skills too.

Then add the ability to perform acts while sober, alert, and strictly attentive to one's customers preferences that most people do while drunk, horny, and attentive mainly to their own preferences.  (And whereas the average person might have sex infrequently enough to shrug off the aches and pains of a possibly overeager, under-skilled, or inconsiderate partner in the heat of the moment the average sex worker can neither afford such injuries, generally won't have that "heat of the moment" benefit in any case, and so probably needs to be able to avoid them.)  More skills, and as anyone who has frequent sex with one intimate partner for their own enjoyment, let alone many, knows they're not inconsiderable skills.

And finally, remember that Queen Victoria was joking when she produced that "lie back and think of England" quip: sex is a learned, physical activity.

Add it all up and I'm… pretty sure "no skill" probably isn't the right description for what sex-workers do.

I think what she's trying to say is that in theory anyway the barrier to entry seems low enough that anyone willing and interested in trying prostitution ought to have an easy time doing so.  My (informed) guess would be that those who imagine there's "no skill" involved don't stay in the business long enough to register in the surveys and censuses of sex work economists like Adshade rely on for their speculations.

Anyway, I think if Adshade dropped the assumption that prostitution requires no skill it might at least partially answer her questions about the wage gap between sex work and conventional "unskilled" labor.

Note: I’m not suggesting that skill explains the entire wage differential. It’s just that Ashade cited estimates that sex-workers average roughly three times the income of unskilled workers. I just think it’s a mistake to use unskilled labor as the basis for comparison.


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Oh Right, Print Newspapers Only Run Classifieds for Wholesome *Escort* Services, Not Dirty *Sex-Workers!*

Markos Moulitsas of Daily Kos says

Notice how the anti-Craigslist hysteria is being fueled by newspapers — the same newspapers still smarting over the loss of their classifieds business.

He said it here.

Growing up in the rural Bible-belt south we also noticed that moonshiner donations to anti-alcohol ministers went up whenever anyone tried to introduce wine, liquor, or even beer sales in “dry” counties.

Of course I’m not saying that newspaper publishers routinely prostitute themselves to the interests of local politicians and large advertisers (*cough*) but it is the case that Craigslist and other free advertising websites have effectively gutted the $7.00/line bread and butter classified-ad revenue streams newspapers used to be able to put in the bank. That maybe 1% of those ads are (slightly) less reputable.

But it’s not like many of those same newspapers don’t also profit from sex-workers (*cough*escorts*cough*) in their own print and online classified ads.


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Another Unintended Consequence of the Recent Craigslist "Adult Services" Blackout

I have a number of friends and even more extended family members who are massage therapists. Here in Washington State licensed massage practitioners are required to take ongoing courses in order to maintain their certification. Here’s a catalog entry for the Pacific Northwest School of Massage’s continuing education program from earlier this summer. You’ll notice one of the items on the list is very not like the other ones.

All classes are NCB approved (NCB #451040-09) and valid for NCB, AMTA, and WA state CE Credit. You will be issued a certificate at the end of class.

  • Treatment Massage for the Low Back Structures
  • Muscle-Specific Deep Tissue Techniques for the Back
  • Deep Muscle-specific work of the Anterior Neck
  • CTM-Bindegewebsmassage Review
  • Massage and Prostitution: What’s Going On?
  • Understanding the Somatic Nervous System and Proprioception
  • Deep Tissue Chest and Supine Shoulders
  • The Neuroendocrine System, Stress, and Massage
  • Deep Tissue of the Iliopsoas, Diaphragm, QL, and Paraspinals
  • Nutritional Self-Care: Know Your Macronutrients
  • Deep Tissue of Legs
  • Deep Tissue Techniques for the Iliopsoas, Diaphragm and QL (Quadratus Lumborum)
  • Hydrotherapy Principles and Physiology and Banya 5 Field Trip
  • Deep Muscle Therapy Workshop in Hilo, Hawaii

Read the list and course descriptions in context here.

Now figleaf, you might be saying, aside from their 90+ inches of rainfall a year what possible problem could you have with privately paid-for education junkets Hilo, Hawaii? And how could it possibly related to recent news about Craigslist’s capitulation to pressure to black out their “Adult Services” category? Which is, after all, a major point of this post.

Eh, if you didn’t have the patience to closely read the list the odd duck in the mix would be…

Massage and Prostitution: What’s Going On?

One of the great frustrations legitimate massage therapists face is the confusion in the public eye between massage therapy and prostitution. We like to believe that there is less of this confusion than there used to be, and that massage is much more accepted as legitimate therapy by the general public. The truth is that the overlap has actually gotten worse in one significant respect: there are more prostitution businesses fronting as massage businesses in Washington than ever before. Some of these businesses are engaged not only in sexual massage, but in human trafficking.

Come and learn why the problem has gotten worse and what we can do about it. Our instructor will be Butch Watson, LMP, a massage therapist and retired police detective who has been studying the problem for 3 years. The situation we find ourselves facing in Washington is a perfect storm of legal, legislative, enforcement, and economic issues. This class is a call to action—our response to the problem will need to be organized, nuanced, and multifaceted if we are to disentangle our profession from prostitution.

This class satisfies the new Washington State Ethics requirement, and fulfills 4 hours of the NCBTMB Ethics requirement.

Instructor: Butch Watson
Ethics CE hours: 4
Location: Redmond, WA
Tuition: $75 if registered by August 20th; $100 thereafter
Registration: Send check to Pacific Northwest School of Massage, 7511 25th Ave NW, Seattle, WA 98117

It happens to be a persistent, perpetual annoyance to massage practitioners almost everywhere, that the work they do is confused with sex work. It’s a problem made even worse by the fact that many prostitutes advertise themselves as massage therapists, and that many brothels advertise themselves as massage “parlors.”

It’s a problem in the sense that the spouses, partners, friends, and family members of clients often question the legitimacy of the treatments they’re receiving. It’s a problem in the sense that many state and local licensing authorities impose increasingly stringent certification requirements for licensing*. It’s a problem in the sense that the penalties for letting your license lapse are high** (as is the lack of reciprocity between jurisdictions that leads to sometimes year-long training requirements to get back in compliance in a new jurisdiction!)

And it’s a big fucking problem with customers who show up wondering whether, when, and/or why they’re not getting a “happy ending” with their massage.

And why might this be? Well, it might be because it’s illegal to be a prostitute and so they have to lie about what they’re doing.

Y’know one of the nice things for massage therapists in Washington State? Craigslist had two separate sections for the two kinds of “massage:” a section for real, trained, professional, licensed massage therapists, and one in the Adult Services section called (I think but, of course, I can’t check at the moment) “body rubs.”

Not everyone knew about the difference. And not all sex workers advertised in the “body rub” sections. Some, annoyingly, continued to advertise in the professional massage-services sections.

Now? Well, now they’re all going to start advertising in the massage-therapy sections. And even if they didn’t? Even more of their erstwhile customers are going to start fishing in the pool of real massage therapists to see if maybe, just in case, they’re one of the ones that does more than grind their thumbs and elbows into pressure points in your neck and back.

Anyway, next time you need to fulfill continuing-ed ethics requirements what are the odds you’d be offered a section on the hassles of sex workers pretending to be members of your profession? I’m not saying it never happens in other professions (though I can’t think of many.) I’m definitely not saying there’s anything wrong with sex work per se.

I am saying the burden placed on legitimate body-work professionals it just one more stupid, thuggish, and ill-considered consequence of all these Attorney’s General grandstanding against Craigslist’s Adult Services sections.

* Significant bit of trivia: back in the day a common requirement for a license were tests of anatomy but tests for sexually transmitted diseases! Connection much?

** Amusing anecdote: According to the instructor, former police detective and current massage-therapist activist Butch Watson, state agencies are actually quicker to take action against legal massage practitioners who let their license lapse than they are against individuals and businesses who never bother to get licensed at all!


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Funny Thing About the Way Trafficking is Presented in "The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo" Novels

I’m traveling with family and have next to no time for blogging but I did want to make what I think is a critical point raised in the middle book of the Stig Larssen “Girl With the Dragon Tattoo” series of detective novels.

A major thread in the 2nd book, The Girl Who Played With Fire, involves sex-trafficking in Sweden.

Sex trafficking is the current bugaboo of sex-work abolitionists, both in America and abroad.

In America you hear, um, bullshit about how hundreds of thousands of women and children are trafficked into the country, against both their wills and their inclinations, for use as prostitutes. It’s bullshit because a) while there’s certainly international and intranational sex trafficking in America there’s no conspiracy large enough to conceal an extra million new enslaved people coming into the country every five years and b) there’s no evidence of such numbers either.

The problem seems to be that activists believe that unless the numbers are really, really, really big then nobody will care and nobody will do anything about it. And so they inflate their numbers.

In Larssen’s books, which are set in Sweden, everyone’s scandalized that as many as 400 (that’s four hundred total) humans might be trafficked into Sweden.

You know why I think that’s so cool?

Because 400 people trafficked against their will into any country, for any kind of work, really is a scandal.

Even one would be!

That American anti-trafficking activists feel they have to gin up the numbers is itself scandalous. That they might be right that no one would care if they used real numbers is also scandalous.

Of course I happen to think that, contrary to abolitionist activist hyperbole, ordinary voluntary sex work ought to be legal. I also happen to think that if it was legal then it would be a lot easier to identify and protect the much, much, much smaller number of people who really are illegally trafficked into the country, against their will, to perform sex work. Or any other kind of work.


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Questioning, But Not Challenging, Lawrence Taylor's Indictment for Raping a Sex-Trafficked 16-Year-Old

A staffer at TMZ Sports says

A woman has come forward in the Lawrence Taylor case to say the NFL legend did not have sex with the 16-year-old girl he is accused of raping.

The witness — a 23-year-old stripper who says she was living with the 16-year-old girl and her alleged pimp at the time — gave a sworn statement to investigators from the defense team, saying she was waiting outside the hotel at the time of the alleged incident. According to the AP, the woman says the teenager returned to the car with $300 in cash and said, “It was weird … we didn’t even have sex.”

Read the quote in context here.

According to another source, nfl.fanhouse.com, the defense witness claims “Taylor rubbed himself on the girl, but they did not have sex.” Which, I guess, is supposed to make it all better.

At the end of the day, though, what really matters… what the case boils down to… what’s wrong with the entire picture can be summed up in something else the woman is reported to have been concerned about. Again from the nfl.fanhouse newswire

The woman said in her statement that she did not come forward initially because she worried she would get in trouble because she knew the girl was underage.

Um. Yeah. She was living with this 51-year-old pimp and a 16-year-old girl she knew he was pimping, she accompanied the girl and the pimp to a customer’s hotel room and stood outside waiting while an act of teen prostitution took place. If it wasn’t for the evident fact that the word “prostitution” magically washes away all traces of “statutory rape,” “sexual assault of a child,” “sex offender registry,” “corruption of a minor,” and every other offense prosecutors, judges, and juries are usually (and, I think, correctly) willing to throw at people who have sex with minors, the woman had every reason to worry she’d get in trouble.

For that matter I’m really inclined to question (but certainly not challenge) the rape charges leveled against Taylor in the first place. It’s extremely unusual for prosecutors to charge johns with sexual assault… even when the johns commit violent assault against adult sex workers rather than statutory sexual assault against minor ones.

I’m not knocking their decision because I think it’s a really good idea to hold johns accountable for not meticulously verifying the age of the sex workers they hire. (Taylor claims he asked and the girl told him she was 19. Which doesn’t wash in my book — if she’d said she was Mother Theresa he’d probably have asked to see her ID so…)

But it’s so unusual I’m curious about the particulars that led to this, well, particular charge being brought.

Anyway, bottom line here is that a) yes, whatever one can say about voluntary, entrepreneurial sex work there are also sex workers who are conscripted and coerced, sometimes by violence, b) yes, whatever one can say about consenting adults we do not say the same thing about minors, even consenting ones, and c) while it’s laudable that prosecutors appear to be charging Lawrence with rape and the pimp with sex trafficking they’re still failing to bring with perfectly-accurate and well-deserved charges against them for crimes that would put them on sex-offender registries for life.

It’s perfectly possible to support legalizing the sale and purchase of sexual services from autonomous, uncoerced adults (as I am, even though I’m not terrifically enthusiastic about it) while also supporting draconian measures against the sale or purchase of sexual access to the bodies of those who are conscripted, coerced, trafficked, or otherwise unable to freely and legally consent.

It’s a mistake to imagine that rape is the right word for voluntary commercial sexual services. It’s an even bigger mistake to imagine any other word will do for those who are coerced into sexual servitude.


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