sexual safety

Re: Old Baptist Punchline - "Because it Might Lead to Dancing"

Sun, 2011-10-16 13:35

I'm less sure why "grind" dancing is considered a bad thing. Sure, there's lots of sexual connotations. But...

Except for sweat there doesn't seem to be a lot of sharing of bodily fluids.

Also, this is going to sound old-fogie and out of touch maybe but...

Over time I've noticed that whereas there was a sort of mythology about men's "thrusting" behavior, as contrasted to women's passive receptivity, it's been seeming to me lately that women have their own version of "thrusting" that...

Pretty similar in both motivation and intent.

It's just that attitudes have changed since the 1970s that it's ok to, I dunno, thrust back.

Stroke of Conscience: Contraception Choices and Risks

Wed, 2009-10-21 14:58

Independent sex-site diva Trixy of (nsfw, duh) TastyTrixy.com passes along word that a fellow solo sex-site host, UndressJess, appears to have had a stroke. (Uncommon in Pill users, yes, but still way, way less common in the general population among people her age.) After reading some last chaotic Twitter posts, including one about her heading for the hospital, Trixy was able to reach her by phone.

She was able to speak fairly coherently, though she stopped and apologized a couple of times because it’s hard for her to organize her thoughts. Apparently the main thing is that SHE CAN’T READ and is pretty worried wondering how she’ll be able to work on her site, camming, blogging, promoting herself, etc. when she totally can’t READ. It’s like weird instant dyslexia.

It’s really hard to imagine being so young, living alone and becoming disabled overnight. You never know how long (if ever) after a stroke you’ll regain the function(s) you lost, but if I heard her correctly the estimate is about a year for her to be able to read again. Apparently the only guess being made as to why this happened to her is from her birth control pills. Yes, fuckers, STROKE is one of the risks of being on hormonal birth control. So next time you hear a guy complain about using a fucking condom, pull out this little gem. Risk of stroke isn’t just a bunch of tiny words on a pill pack insert no one reads.

She said it here.

I don’t know Jess but the response around the independent

Just to be clear, it’s not certain the pill caused her stroke. It’s just a possibility. But this would be a good time to mention that possibility and, as Trixie did, put it in context.

Given a map of the world where the lacework of fringe can extend deep into the interiors of continents it’s really important to understand that the risks of birth-control pills is pretty low on the continuum of potentially-pregnant things that can happen from heterosexual genital-to-genital activities.

The risk is also much lower today than it was in the 1960s and 1970s when The Pill contained whopping amounts of hormones compared to today.

So by and large if you’re going to have unprotected heterosexual intercourse it’s statistically safer both health- and life-wise to take the pill than not.

But the risk of most contraceptives is real and it’s one born at the moment by women. Vasectomy, condoms, withdrawal, and no intercourse at all are _

Grist.org and Babeland.com Team Up to Promote Non-Novelty Sex Tools For Valentine's Day

Thu, 2009-02-12 12:24

So. You probably wouldn’t be surprised to learn that sex toys are called “toys” instead of, say, sex appliances or masturbation devices for a reason. Nor would you be surprised to learn they’re called toys, or, more specifically, “novelty items” specifically because so many jurisdictions either explicitly or implicitly regulate commercial activities anything having to do with sex, let alone anything having to do with masturbation.

Ironic, then, that whereas the sale of sex devices are heavily regulated around the country (until very recently they were flat illegal in Texas) the manufacture of “novelty items” isn’t regulated at all. With the classic twittery vs. substance consequence that many such toys contain toxic and/or carcinogenic chemicals that would be prohibited if they were sold for actual use!

What? You actually use your vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, sleeves, and other items instead of having a good laugh at their novelty and then chucking them out? Who knew?!?!? :-)

That’s where Grist comes in. They’ve teamed up with Babeland to promote a funny, disarming video that both mocks the lack of safety in some products and promotes healthier, and hotter (njoy vibrators and glass dildos anyone?) alternatives.

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This isn’t Grist’s first foray into eco-friendly sex advice. See also

Hat tip to Jennifer Prediger

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