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Sun, 2005-09-25 17:34
How come I’m comfortable saying “I fucking love you” but too inhibited to say “I love fucking you” when a partner and I are fucking?
25 Words or Less: The prudish libertine in a nutshell
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Blogs and Links
- Muslim Feminists
- Akwaeke Emezi's The Feel of Free
- Sue George's Bisexuality and Beyond
- Mark Simpson (coined the phrase "metrosexual")
- Geeky Vamp's Tumblr
- Toy Soldiers (male victims rights blogger)
- Caitlin Roberts' To Be a Slut
- Kitten's SexWriter (Started in 2004!)
- Yes, Roxanne, Put On the Red Light
- Gender Across Borders
- Amy Lang's Birds+Bees+Kids
- Yes, Roxanne, Put On The Red Light
- Linda Miller Nicholson's Salty Seattle (Food blog)
- NudieFoodie
- Missionary Position
- No Seriously, What About Teh Menz?
- The Brunette's Blog
- Man Boobz ("mocking misogyny since 2010")
- Science blogger Kate Clancy's Context and Variation)
- Miss Maggie Mayhem
- Restructure!
- The Daily Bastardette (Adoptee rights activist)
- Sex is Not the Enemy (NSFW)
- Dollfacekilla's Sex Toys That Suck
- Danny's Sex, Art and Politics
- BABES Network - a forum for voices of women living with HIV/AIDS
- Abused Deaf Women's Advocacy Services
- Clarisse Thorn's LoveBites
- Svlutlana of Svlutlandia
- Momentum Conference: Making Waves in Sexuality, Feminism and Relationships Through New Media
- Kristen Chase's Mominatrix, at Imperfect Parent
- Twanna Hines's Funky Brown Chick
- Sex and the 405 ("what your newspaper would look like if it had a sex section")
- Tess's Urban Gypsy
- Debauched Domestic Diva
- Lady's Ticklish Male Celebrities
- Self-Serve (Albuquerque sex shop)
- Julie McCloud Says
- Julie's Jezebel Forever
- Amanda Hess's TheSexist Blog
- Emily Nagoski :: sex nerd
- Lindsay Beyerstein's political blog Focal Point at Big Think
- Echidne of the Snakes
- Harriet Jacob's Fugitivus
- Go Back to Bed Shop ("Woman owned, mother approved")
- GoBacktoBed's Blog
- Kelly Diels' Cleavage
- Back Up Your Birth Control
- Naomi Mc's Vagina Dentata
- Christian Nymphos
- Lillie Yifu's 2nd Sex
- K's Feminists with FDS
- Em & Lo
- Jill's Savage Death Island (a.k.a. Twisty Faster's I Blame the Patriarchy
- Holly's The Pervocracy
- Partners: Veronica of Another Suburban Mom
and Hubman of Hubman's Hangout - Intersex Society of North America
- Below the Belt: Deconstructing Gender
- Violence Unsilenced
- Amanda Marcotte & Co's Pandagon
- Camera Play for Couples
- Blue Gal
- Feministe
- Beyond the Birds and the Bees
- Alas, A Blog
- Feministing.com
- St. James Infirmary (Bay Area Clinic)
- Whole DC sex-positive community center
- Annajcook's Future Feminist Librarian-Activist
- Susie Bright's Journal
- Sungold's Kittywampus
- Hugo Schwyzer
- Adolescent Sexuality by Dr. Karen Rayne
- xkcd
- Britni Danielle's Oh My God, That Britni's Shameless
- Crawford, Bartow et al.'s Feminist Law Professors
- Dr. Kate's Gynotalk
- 13 Messages
- Cherry.tv
- Yes Means Yes
- Susannah Breslin's The Reverse Cowgirl
- Freethinker's Notes of a Freethinker
- Regender.com
- Sociological Images
- Male Submission Art
- Erotica Cover Watch
- The Butterfly Temptress
- Laura Agustín's Border Thinking on Migration, Culture, Economy and Sex
- Sarah Haskin's of Target Women
- Rori's Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008
- National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
- Amanda Brooks' After Hours
- The Frisky
- Hot Blogger Calendar
- Pepomint's Freaksexual
- Sex Geek
- On Top of the Sheet With the Light On and Your Mom Watching
- RH Reality Check
- Kink In Exile
- Michelle Obama Watch from What About Our Daughters
- The F-Word Blog
- lumpesse
- Feminist Mormon Housewives
- Bitchy Jones's Diary
- Catherine Morgan's 274 (and counting) Women Blogging On Politics
- Real Live Lesbian
- Dacia's The Naked City
- Full-Frontal Friday (should be self-explanatory)
- Kathy G's The G-Spot
- The Sex Workers Project
- The Sensual Vegan
- Suzanne Reisman's Campaign for Un-Shaved Snatch
- Z's The Naked Truth
- M.Yu's The Jade Gate
- Prom Queen Subdued
- Elizaveta Mora's Vespertine Erotica
- Tara Tainton
- Bunny's Rabbit Gone Wrong
- Connecticut Man1 (why not?)
- R. Hayes' Fors Clavigera
- Duke Orsineo's Illyrical Despatches
- Cyrao Q's Aiming to Arouse
- SnowdropExplodes
- Mayy May's May Be Maimed But Never Harmed
- ClueChick
- Ell's Wilful Damage
- Calico's Dominatrix Next Door
- BadInfluenceGirl
- Ily's Asexy Beast
- Bitch Ph.D
- Whatsername's The Jaded Hippie
- Roy's No Cookies For Me
- Peppermint's Freaksexual
- Deaf Bunny
- 2007 Blogger Boobie-thon
- Collegecallgirl's Confessions of a College Callgirl
- Mr. Devereux's Gentleman Gigilo
- Feel your boobies
- Hotties of Harm Reduction (calendar project)
- Female-led Relationships
- Taken in Hand
- Mike and Eva's Eva's Cute Feet
- Vixen's Secrets of a Blue Eyed Vixen
- Andrea Zanin's Sex Geek
- Hathor's Hathor-Sikhmet
- ActForLove.org (progressive personals site)
- Infra's Skin::filter()
- Heather Corrina's Pure as the driven slush
- Melissa Gira's Sexerati
- Cassandra Says
- Cheri's Secret lover's lane
- Dirty filty princess
- Elizabeth Anne Wood's Sex in the public square
- Shay's The S-Spot
- Smart Girls Who Do It
- Toys in Babeland Blog
- The Beautiful Kind
- A's A changing life
- Jefferson's One Life Take Two
- Girlspoke
- Sexuality and Religion: What's the Connection?
- Lena Chen's Sex and the ivy
- Blowfish.com
- Hardley Surton's Babes with books
- Scarleteen
- Justin & Carrie's Sex in Art
A
B-C
- Bacchus and Aphrodite's ErosBlog
- Bliss's The Strait of Messia
- Blue Gal
- Bonnie's My Bottom Smarts
- Cat's Never judge a book by its cover
- Chelsea Girl's pretty dumb things
- Cherry Bomb's Queen of Cream
- Confessions of a libertine
D-E
- Dacia's Waking Vixen
- Debra Haffner's Sexuality and Religion
- Darkneuro's House of Musings
- Debbie's Dirty Little Diary
- Desire X
- Dirty Girl's Dirty Little Mind
- DTG's Pussy Talk
- EA's Easily Aroused
- Ema's The well-timed period
- Emma's Mommy has a headache
- Evilicious Blonde
F-I
- Fay Flam's Carnal Knowledge Columns
- Flea's One Good Thing
- Fleshbot Sex Roundup
- FTN's Fade to Numb
- Hannah's Down the Rabbit Hole
- Hedonistic Pleasureseeker
- Holly's Self-portrait as...
J-K
- Jennifer's Activist on a mission to initiate change...
- Joey Madison's Secrets on Madison Avenue
- Juno's The erotic journal of Juno Henry
- Just a Girl's Hit The JaG Spot!
- Ken and Ariel's KenAndAriel
- Kim's Mercurial Girl
L
- Laurie Toby Edison's Body impolitic
- Linny's Spinster War Diaries
- Literate Perversions
- LushlyMe's LushlyAlive
- Lynn Gazis-Sax's Noli Irritare Leones -(sexuality category)
M
- Madeline in the Mirror
- Mighty69's Everyday nakedness
- Minerva's A Woman of Many Parts
- Minx's Emerging on the other side
- Miss Syl's Sexeteria
- Mistress Matisse's Journal
- Mohja Kahf's Sex and the Umma
- Monk's ...and the strangest things seem, suddenly routine
- Monmouth's Rentboy Diaries
N-R
- Nicole's By what shall we call her?
- Obasso's HNT
- O's Eros, Logos
- Pandora's Box
- Patty's Creative Spanko Wench
- Phllip's HotAction.com
- Plum's Plum, a ripening
- Queen of Ass
- Rachelkb's Lusty Lady
- Red Velvet's Inside the Velvet Rope
- Red's The Red Sneaker Diaries
- Regina Lynn's SexRev 2.0
- Richard's Down On My Knees
- Richard Evans Lee's Sexy pop culture
- Rollertrain's Small Adult World
- Rupert's Muffboxfilms
S
- Samantha Wolov's Nekkid with a camera
- Sasha's Sex - Dark Side of the Moon
- Satin Kitty
- SD's Salacious Desires
- Sex is Funny
- Sex SIG's Sex and Games
- Sex with Rex and Roxy
- Sexblo.gs
- Shake's Great shakes
- SingleAgain's My version of a single womans life
- Slow Learner
- Spoon's Chez Spoon
- SugarBank
- Sxxxy.org
T-Z
- Tell Your Sex Story
- ThatGirl's That Girl's life
- The 30-year-old virgin
- The Feminarian's Feminary
- The Hot Librarian
- TheGirl's Girl with a one-track mind
- Theresa and Lu's 2 hot chiks
- Tony Comstock's TC's Blog
- Trix's Bated breath
- Tweed's Knit Porn
- Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles
- Viviane's Sex Carnival
- Vixen's Bad girl's guide
- Vixen's Radical Vixen
- VS's Dilemmas of a Virgin Slut
- W.S. Cross's Beyond you and me
- Whirlbrain's Pureedthought
- Wombat and Aspen's Kiss and Blog
Reference
- Pepper Schwartz's "Prime"
- Esther Perel's "Mating in Captivity"
- Murray S. Davis's "Smut: Everyday Reality - Obscene Ideology"
- Ladas, Whipple & Perry's "The G-Spot"
- Shulamith Firestone's "The Dialectics of Sex"
- Elizabeth Abbott's "A History of Celibacy"
- Stephanie Coontz: Marriage, a History
- Joan Sewell's "I'd Rather Eat Chocolate"
- Ehrenreich & English's "For Her Own Good"
- Heather Corrina's "S.E.X."
Sites
- ProKanDo (pro-choice folks out of Kansas)
- Fatale Media
- Abstience Clearinghouse
- Literotica
- APA's Pregnancy loss (miscarriage/stillbirth) resource page
- Regender.com
- Snopes: The "all intercourse is rape" myth
- Planned Parenthood Birth-control page
- Something awful's Horrors of porn
- Fatale Media
- AgelessLove.com
- (Comparative) Erection Photos
- A Woman's Touch Sexuality Resource Center - Madison, Wisconsin
- Abby Winter's Abbywinters.com
- Adult DVD Talk
- Adult Sexuality Web
- Aphrodite: Women's Health Discussion Forums
- AskMen.com
- ASO Community
- AVEN: Asexual Visibility & Education Network
- BDSM: A Guide for Nice Guys
- Betty Dodson's Masturbation
- Blog Safer: The Anoniblogging Wiki
- Clitical.com The Ultimate Female Masturbation And Sexuality Information Site.
- Cunt: A Cultural History
- Dr Gonzales's Celebrated Reality Sex Guide: Penetrate the Tao of Porn
- Erotic podcasts for your MP3 player at Digital Podcast
- Ezine at Ms Naughty Porn for Women
- Female Masturbation - On Camera
- Feminist Perspectives on Sex Markets
- GirlPower: Glamour photo retouches
- Google Tutor & Advisor
- Guttmacher Institute
- Heartchoice.com the Practical Professional Advice on Relationships
- hellyeah v.2::sex
- Hippie Goddess
- Holistic Wisdom, Inc.
- Homemade Sex Toys for Women: Blanket Pull
- Human Rights Campaign | Home Page
- Jane Duvall's JanesGuide
- JoseyVogels
- Kirsten Anderberg's Online Vulva Museum
- Belladona's The lipstick lesbian page
- Matthew Hunt's Cunt: A Cultural History.
- Ms. Kitka's Red Chronicle
- Muslim WakeUp! Sex & the Umma
- Paul & Lori's The Marriage Bed - Sex and Intimacy for Married Christians
- Sexual Advice - Sex Education and Expert Sex Advice at MyPleasure
- Sexual Intelligence by Marty Klein, Ph.D.
- tacit: More on the Green-Eyed Monster, or Fixing the Refrigerator for Love and Profit
- The Alan Guttmacher Institute: Home Page
- The Anal Conspiracy -- from Craig's List
- The Sinclair Intimacy Institute's Better Sex
- Tony Comstock's Comstock Films
- village voice: Erotic etiquette
- Working girls : prostitutes, their life and social control [Australian studies in law, crime and justice]
