The Scribe called Steff at Cunting Linguist is halfway through a very thorough but very approachable tutorial on cunnilingus. She’s been getting a fair number of hits but relatively few comments, especially from men, and feeling a bit discouraged. This is disappointing because a) she knows what she’s talking about and b) she’s rumbling about not finishing it.
Personally I’d like to thank her for taking the time to really, really explain what’s going on. Some of this I knew instinctively, some I learned through trial and error, some I thought I knew but I was wrong, some I didn’t know at all. I really appreciate the detail she’s providing, the effort she’s taking to put things in terms men can relate to, and especially the sheer volume of information she’s providing. I mean crikies, three posts and she’s only halfway there.
Specific details I appreciate: Instructors often say “her whole body can be…” you provide specific examples while making it clear there can be others. You provided a highly accessible example by using a well-known episode of Friends. You indirectly provided a good argument for shaving by proposing gnawing the mons itself, which I hadn’t considered before but would worry about pulling hairs if any got caught in my teeth. You did a wonderful job explaining how the outermost part of the vagina has most of the nerve endings. If I went back, which I certainly will, I could pull several other great examples of how you explained something in a way that, even if you had a basic understanding, makes the technique, or area, or idea clearer.
I think the least I can do to encourage her is to write a post applauding her up one side and down the other, and encouraging people to come read it, and encourage men to actually do what she recommends. And I will certainly apply all the ideas she’s reinforced, reminded me of, and introduced the next time I perform cunnilingus. And while I’d prefer draw the line at telling my partner where I learned the new things I’ll be trying, if that’s what it takes to get her to finish the series I’m at least willing to consider it.
Her first three entries:
The Man’s Guide to Fine Female Dining: Pt. 1
The Sex Tips Scene from “Friends”
The Man’s Guide to Fine Female Dining Pt. 2”
And to prove she’s no slouch she’s also recently written
The Good Girl’s Guide to Giving GREAT Head Pt. 1
The Good Girl’s Guide to Giving GREAT Head Pt. 2
