Xylophone Inspired by the masturbating-with-other-people theme Magdelena, Storm and others have explored with delightful humidity I wanted to suggest a change of emphasis and give a stamp of approval to the practice of masturbating while touching or eating one’s partner.
One of the first times I got to perform cunillingus on a naked woman (for “modesty’s” sake we’d always done it through her undies or pantyhose before) we were lying on a thick, new 70’s-era shag carpet. This was in, of all places, a hallway fairly near the top of some stairs so we could bolt if/when we heard her parents come in. Anyway, she was lying on her back, with her ankle-length peasant dress bunched up around her shoulders (that dress was handy — if she had to stand up in a hurry she was instantly dressed) and her feet wide apart on the hallway’s opposite walls. I was fully dressed on my belly with my head between her legs where I could explore her open thighs, upturned vulva, smoochable inner lips, and mysterious-at-the-time clitoris with my inquisitive tongue and lips. I don’t think I can post often enough about how totally cool… what a full sensory delight it is to perform cunnilingus but it’s just the best! Anyway, There I was lying on the floor, my erection pressed against the soft carpet, and before I knew it I became totally lost in the sheer sensual pleasure of the look, feel, flavor, aroma, and sounds of my mouth on her sex and the friction of my cock pressing into the carpet. Which was sort of a shame since I also sort of lost track in the procedural sense that I was also supposed to be giving her an orgasm.
Some years later the roles were reversed when a partner was eating me as she squatted next to me and, it turned out, grinding her clitoris into one of her heels. Her mouth stayed fastened tight around me and her tongue never stopped moving but her focus drifted further and further from getting me off until she finally had an orgasm of her own.
In both those cases what were ostensibly efforts to bring one’s partner off became additional masturbatory stimulus. In both cases the “offending” party was pretty embarrassed for going “off task.”
The more I think about it though, the more I like the idea. Kissing, sucking, and licking a partner really does feel good in its own right. Watching a partner masturbate really is exciting. So now I’m just wondering whether there’s a way to put those two things together on purpose instead of by accident.
Two questions then:
- Would idly nuzzling and eating your partner improve your masturbatory experience? Would you like to try it? Don’t forget you can always switch places after.
- If your partner were masturbating for you would you mind if he or she idly ate and nuzzled you as well? Would you like to try it? Don’t forget you can always switch places after.
It’s pretty obvious I’d answer yes to both questions. It occurs to me that one frequent complaint about sixty-nining is that you can be so distracted by what your partner does it’s hard to concentrate on what you’re doing. I think that taking turns this way removes that pressure to perform and lets you just enjoy your turn.
