Another one of those quirky things I’m learning from watching porn clips over at YouTube knockoff YouPorn.com: most women seem to need absolutely no clitoral stimulation to have moaning, sometimes even screaming orgasms. For many it seems to make no difference whether there’s any below-the-waist contact at all. Heck, for quite a few it seems to be enough to just kneel there mouth open, tongue out, eyes closed to experience paroxysms.

So…

I’m not even bragging when I say I’m very good at the kind of things that have made my partners have orgasms. Near OCD attention levels combined with a severe indoctrination in the “no-sex” class paradigm, while actually not that healthy sexually nevertheless helped me develop some pretty good techniques with my hands, my mouth, my thighs, my erect cock, and even (through jeans) my toes that have generally worked extravagantly well in combination with hot kisses, strong arms, very warm skin, gentle mummers, [ok, ok, also gentle murmurs! —fl] naughty stories, and genuine feelings. I’ve been with partners who’ve come in just seconds (her on top “dry humping” fully clothed is very effective for lots of people) to several hours (tied to the corners of a bed with soft leather straps in a candle-lit room and tormented mercilessly with a small brush kept wet with her juices.) And yet…

And yet…

For all that I’ve never learned the secret of giving partners near-spontaneous orgasms with no visible contact with any of her erogenous zones (better known or little known) and so…

Have I been missing something all these years?

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For the record this afternoon I spotted one clip where a couple was engaged in side-lying rear-entry intercourse and the man, clearly no better experienced at the mystery technique than I, reached around his partner’s body and stimulated her vulva. Seriously, it was the first time I’d seen that. In porn, I mean.

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No doubt I’ve just been making poor choices but as yet none of the men have had similarly spontaneous orgasms without… well… quite a lot of friction first. Which is strange when you think about it — men allegedly being so much easier to “bring” to orgasm than women and all.

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I’m sure none of this is giving young men and young women with no other sources of good sexual instruction nothing but the best impressions of what to expect from their partners.