Reframing abortion and contraception in *our* terms

Thu, 2007-10-18 16:13

Amanda Marcotte of Pandagon says in terms of Matt Yglesias’s somewhat thumb-fingered reframing of the abortion-legalization debate

One of the big time reasons [anti-abortion activists] make a lot of noise about babies (when they don’t give a fuck, really) and otherwise try to package their views as harm reduction (abstinence-only supposedly spares you from heartbreak, abstaining from contraceptions spares you from being called a “contracepting woman”, etc.) is because if they came straight out and admitted that they think people should just quit fucking is that being against sex outright is going to go over as well with people as trying to ban ice cream. We should put more effort into luring anti-choicers into debating on our terms, and force the issue to make them argue against frequent and fun sex.

Read the quote in context here.

She follows up with another point Yglesias brings up about the virtue of reducing the need for abortion through contraception vs. reducing the availability (but not the absolute rate) through legislation or terrorism.

That said, I don’t think of “reduce abortions” as something that’s strictly arguing on right wing turf, for a couple of major reasons. One, it shows that wingnuts are fucking liars and hypocrites—they say they hate abortion and want to stop it, but doggedly pursue policies (restricting contraception access, abstinence-only education, defunding Planned Parenthood) that will increase the abortion rate. So this study can and will be used to point out that it’s not abortion that’s the motivation for anti-choicers, but their hostility to sex. Which puts the debate on our turf—why do they hate sex so much that they wish to punish women with dirty abortions that will maim and kill them for fucking, which is not only not a crime but a pleasant past time.

The other reason is that “reduce abortions” is a pro-choice, pro-sex frame in the personal lives of many women. Like me—I personally wish to reduce my own abortions because abortions suck. They are painful and expensive and you can’t have sex for weeks afterwards. I’ve had to consider this in a way that someone like Matt hasn’t, because having an abortion in my lifetime is a distinct possibility. For a lot of sexually active pro-choice straight women, an abortion is upsetting not because of the right wing “life” frame, but because it fucks with their own sense of control over their bodies and makes them feel like they fucked up what should be relatively simple, using contraception right. Now, a lot of women are way too hard on themselves—I bet most of us have better track records at avoiding unplanned pregnancy than at not locking our keys in the car—but the point still stands. For a huge percentage of Americans, especially women of child-bearing age, the idea of reducing abortions invokes not having more babies but less unplanned pregnancies.

I love this! Reducing abortions through contraception doesn’t have to have anything to do at all with about avoiding abstract, pin-head dancing exercises in “morality.” At all. It can be about further reducing risk down the pregnancy-to-term -> late-term abortion -> 2nd trimester -> 1st trimester -> hormonal contraception -> other contraception continuum for women. It can be about eliminating the cost, disruption, time, and lost opportunities of unplanned, unwanted pregnancy. In other words, as Marcotte clearly intends (if Yglesias didn’t quite), the debate can occur inside our frame instead of the ‘nutter frame.

Submitted by 1685 (not verified) on Fri, 2007-10-19 06:24.

This is a very good post, thank you for publishing it. In re: to FD as soon as a woman gets her period she is apt to reproduce and in certain cases earlier than that. So yes, if one has to choose between a pregnant 11-year old and reducing harm to that 11-year old, bc is probably a better choice. And if doctors are trained to do gyn checks on children as well as adults I'm sure they're trained to know when a child may be at risk for getting pregnant... Is it the best choice? I don't think human sexuality can be debated in those terms. Also, we don't have enough information on how doctors frame their prescription, is it accompanying another prescription to counseling and a wad of condoms?

In other parts of the world the pill is sold over the counter. It is accessibility alone that increases its usage. We all know that as a teenager parents are the least accessible when it comes to talking about sex. Probably because our kids see us getting all shy around those viagra commercials, so they emulate the adults in thinking that sexuality must be hidden. It doesn't go like that in all cases, but it happens often that parents are reluctant to openly discuss sexuality at an early age. And when parents are reluctant a doc may make the choice to make the pill accessible before we have yet another kid with a kid.

[Thanks Mana, you make a lot of great points. I might add that while everyone's wigging out over possible 11-year-olds getting birth control, first of all according to the interview I heard it's not precocious 6th-graders (a lot of 11-year-olds are actually still 5th graders) but 13- and 14-year-old 8th graders who most likely need contraception. It's also worth noting that in many nominally more "moral" areas the age of consent and age of right-to-marriage for girls is as low as 12 so it's not as though Maine is some kind of outlier in terms of moral turpitude. --fl]

Submitted by 1685 (not verified) on Fri, 2007-10-19 14:50.

My objection would be the pill verses condoms. Condoms protect against a lot more and hormonal intervention bothers me at that age. It may be, because I was an urban parent.

[I don't know what kind they're making available. I agree that, especially for the extremely young, *should they be having sex* (which I think strongly they shouldn't) then barrier-plus-spermicide methods would probably be preferable to hormonal methods. On the other hand it's worth mentioning that when children become sexually active at a very young age like that their partners are very, very likely to be far older. Consequently... aargh, it's frustrating even to talk about! As someone else mentioned one problem is a common belief that girls that young are too young to get pregnant! And to inexperienced to carry STDs... again, *extremly* frustrating even to talk about. But barring taking action against their partners, in fact even if action was taken, providing contraceptives that *the individual herself controls* is way, way better than not. Thanks, Five. --fl]

Submitted by 1685 (not verified) on Mon, 2007-10-22 03:36.

When I was in Junior High girls (12-14) got pregnant by Junior High boys. People who originated in tropical areas tend to enter puberty early and especially with better nutrition.

[I very vaguely remember that, but times, evidently, have changed a great deal. At least not that long ago the average age difference for those who get pregnant below, I think, 15, is ten years! But yeah, with girls going into puberty as early as age nine, and presumably having all the hormones you'd have during puberty at any other age, that's got to put a lot of *internal* pressure on them too. Thanks, Five. --fl]

Submitted by 1685 (not verified) on Thu, 2007-10-18 16:43.

So kids 11-14 can get birth control pills without Mom and Dad knowing in a Maine Middle School? Wait...was that 11 years old???? Huh? I mean is it really 11 years old?

One thing that's increasingly irritated me for about the last 4 years are all of the Viagra, Levitra ect...ads on TV that openly discuss sex and "4 hour erections". Ever been watching with your 10 year old niece in the room? Or perhaps 8 year old nephew? Or any kid that doesn't need to be seeing ads like that? It's a little awkward. What kind of discussions does this spur for little Jimmy and his buddies or young Sally and her girlfriends at a sleepover?

Where do these drug companies get off putting those adds out at family viewing time and where do the networks who accept the add money get off approving it? Oh wait, could it possible be all about the money(as opposed to right and wrong) IN THE SHALLOW END OF THE POOL? Could this having something to do with young kids "bringing sexy back" at a younger and younger age? Could the national circus sourounding our friendlyneightborhood ex-President Clinton's horrific decision to play cigar and popsicle games with a 23....yes, 23 year old intern that he had lots of control and influence over have anything to do with it? Could the fact that Mom is just as likely these days to have to work to support our lifestyles versus nurturing and raising a child at home(at least until 5) have anything to do with it?

Just wondering. Thoughts anyone?

[Well, I've got thoughts and the thought, based on an interview I heard this afternoon with a very conflicted member of the group that made the decision was pretty clear. Last year, in that town, there were 17 *known* pregnancies among middle schoolers! (There might have been other, unreported ones.) Considering that alternatives we might prefer aren't working I'd say their decision was 100% correct. Thanks, FD. --fl]

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