Em & Lo of Sex. Love. And Everything in Between have an interesting question for their Wise Guys feature this week.

We know that men love boobs, but is there such a thing as too much cleavage? At what point — if any — does it become tacky to guys? Is it all about the situation and context?

See the question, and three official answers here.

I think its all about the situation and context. Cleavage in a choir robe would probably seem out of place. Meanwhile cleavage in a two-piece bathing suit would be par for the course. And cleavage in a sauna… wouldn’t just be unremarkable, it wouldn’t even be cleavage!

On the other hand wearing a choir robe in a sauna would be just as out of context, and therefore out of place, as a wearing a bikini in a choir loft. It wouldn’t be wrong — not in the sense one should be ashamed of one’s self. But unless there was prior agreement with other participants (e.g. “For our next challenge we all have to wear choir robes in the sauna”) it would be as out of place the same way Sasha Baron Cohen would be out of place… practically anywhere.